"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Raped... kick his ass?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DasaniWater
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NSUballer
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Gavin_Shrewsbury1
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:trouble: :rockon: :kick: :flowers: :moon: :cuss:"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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NYtomb
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You dont know the whole story so dont get involved. Most girls are not worth going to jail over.hi2u said:
LJC
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1) She's telling a lie and wants to see how "manly" you are in so far as sticking up for her.
2) She's telling the truth and wants to see how forgiving you are with baggage (and there will always be more to come after that).
3) She's telling a half truth; meaning she let this guy bang her when she was trashed and she loved it then, but later regretted it because he turned out to be a total prick when sober. This is the worst kind, because it is literally a combination of the first two.
Whatever the case may be, don't get deep into it, man. You can't win.
NYtomb
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sound adviceLJC said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Krak
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Of course it is, she agrees to it and if you are truely a Don Juan, she will want more of it.hi2u said:
On topic. I wouldn't go out of my way to kick the guys ass but if I ever saw him walking down the street or whatever I would kick his ass.
typical
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Of course its different if the story is how some drunk dude jumped out of the bushes and raped her in a park, thats different but those stories are very very rare. And in this age of AFC's guys are too afraid to talk to a girl let alone rape them LOL.
Find out the real truth and act from there thats if you want to get involved in her crap, personally I wouldnt give a rats a$$ unless its the whole some dude jumped out of the bushes crap (but most chicks now carry mace or some crap, yea that shiny thing in her hand bag aint a dildo)
Thomas94305
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At the very least, she should talk with someone who knows how to recover from this kind of thing. Yep, that means a support group, or some sort of counseling service. Even if you beat on this guy, that won't heal her. And, whatever distance she wants away from this guy should be granted, no questions.
As for you beating on this guy, you'll have to trade off how you think you'll feel after that vs legal consequences, your values in using aggression, etc. What would make you or her better off? Beating on him for a time might make you feel better. It won't change what has happened.
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Fukk no, you don't do anything. It's not your business. The b1tch is probably full of sh1t anyway. Can we say AW? If this dude comes up to you making fun of her and disrespects YOU, yeah kick his ass.NSUballer said:
She shouldn't have even told you about it, that makes the story seem false to me. If she was affected by it, she would keep it secret, I promise. Poor, little innocent victim that got raped. Bullsh1t, substitute the word "wh0re" for "victim"....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spider_007
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if she is still hurt, push her to get caunceling (just don't turn into one)
remember, society is WOMAN FRIENDLY, and if she really felt violated she would report it and put the guy in jail. It's really easy for women to do that these days.....i'm sure some of the guys on here could give you horror storries.
If it comes up send her to counseling. If she doesn't want it, change the subject.
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If some chick brought up that sh!t to me I'd say alright lets call the cops right now.
If she was against that I'd begin to wonder to myself if she was really raped at all.
Honestly guys think.
Don't take a woman's word automatically as truth.
It has gotten so many of us in trouble and imprisoned over the years.
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Alot of chicks love drama (I am black, and just about every 3 out of 4 black girls love drama) so she could just be trying to stir you up.
For one, if the girl really got raped, the question is: did she report it?
Another question is: What's the status? Does she know anybody who knows the guy? Does she know where he is?
If a girl really got raped and didn't want to, she would have pressed charges. She probably got fvcked by him and then thought about it afterwards and wished she didn't fvck him.
oakraiderz2
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You speak the truth kinda sir.NYtomb said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.