MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Quora question: Can I increase testosterone naturally?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
speed dawg
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I think it's funny how so many guys out there are guzzling butter, coconut oil and steak because a bunch of bros are saying it raises testosterone. Enjoy the heart attack, guys.
I think the T problem can be solved with 3 steps:
1 - better sleep
2 - deadlifts/squats
3 - eat some nuts
I think the T problem can be solved with 3 steps:
1 - better sleep
2 - deadlifts/squats
3 - eat some nuts
speed dawg
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Along these same lines - cut out the porn. It's a killer for T-levels. That's in my own experience, and I think it's been researched as well.
I'll give my standard warning for the older guys. Too infrequent ejaculation is a risk factor for prostate cancer. Evidently seman has a shelf life and can go bad. So if you are on a dry spell I would suggest cleaning the pipes once every two weeks.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
speed dawg
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I honestly don't think I'll ever have this problem. At the moment, I'm getting some p*ssy or rubbing one out every other day. It's going to be near impossible for me to go 2 weeks.
The woman I am with now always jokes that she is coming over to improve my "prostate health" lol.... I think I have the healthiest one on SS.
R.U.G.
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Stop doing the knuckle shuffle, eat meats, avoid soy, exercise, build muscle. Don't drink a lot of beer, don't do a lot of weed and you can increase your testosterone. However, it is also based partly on your family genome. That, you cannot influence without hard drugs like HGH and stuff.
speed dawg
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bro science
Murk
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How do you know if your T levels are high or low without going to a doctor (I'm not wasting my time doing that)?
I've always had a feeling I might be lacking, only because I was raised by a women, lots of women in my family and I am quite sensitive/emotional at times. My voice is also softer than I look like it should be. I have no problem attracting women though and I have a very high libido.
I've always had a feeling I might be lacking, only because I was raised by a women, lots of women in my family and I am quite sensitive/emotional at times. My voice is also softer than I look like it should be. I have no problem attracting women though and I have a very high libido.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Engage in regular exercise, lift heavy, and eat well. Unless you have bad genetics, you should be fine on this front for a while
zekko
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Man, that's the opposite of the No Fap guys. Figuring out what to believe can be a dilemma.
Who Dares Win
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I believe its not just test itself but how receptors grab it, you can have the most efficient mail delivery system with hundreds of postmen but if the receiver sleep instead of opening the door, there may be a problem.
We know some people is sensitive to DHT in terms of hairloss cause their scalp receptors are very active, yet no one tought about receptors in the rest of the body being more or less responsive.
We know some people is sensitive to DHT in terms of hairloss cause their scalp receptors are very active, yet no one tought about receptors in the rest of the body being more or less responsive.
Philosophically I agree with the no fap guys but hey that gives you two weeks to find a girl to shag. The problem is the study didn't say what the shelf life was so maybe once a month would be okay. Anyway I can't imagine once every two weeks would be psychologically or physically debilitating. But yes obviously finding a girl would be much much better. Preferably finding several girls.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0302283816003778
That is a follow-up study looking at the original findings in the light of a decade of further research. Basically they found more squirting equals a happier prostate. The science looks pretty solid and prostate cancer risk rises with age so I'd suggest older members take this advice if in a dry spell.
Conclusions
These findings provide additional evidence of a beneficial role of more frequent ejaculation throughout adult life in the etiology of PCa, particularly for low-risk disease.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0302283816003778
That is a follow-up study looking at the original findings in the light of a decade of further research. Basically they found more squirting equals a happier prostate. The science looks pretty solid and prostate cancer risk rises with age so I'd suggest older members take this advice if in a dry spell.
Conclusions
These findings provide additional evidence of a beneficial role of more frequent ejaculation throughout adult life in the etiology of PCa, particularly for low-risk disease.
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