“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quora question: Can I increase testosterone naturally?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I think it's funny how so many guys out there are guzzling butter, coconut oil and steak because a bunch of bros are saying it raises testosterone. Enjoy the heart attack, guys.

I think the T problem can be solved with 3 steps:

1 - better sleep
2 - deadlifts/squats
3 - eat some nuts
 

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Competitive sports have also been shown to raise T. I'd bet anything that has exertionand adrenaline like a a karate class would also do it
 

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Lift weights. No fap (or much less fap). Approach/date around (no exclusivity).
Along these same lines - cut out the porn. It's a killer for T-levels. That's in my own experience, and I think it's been researched as well.
 

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I'll give my standard warning for the older guys. Too infrequent ejaculation is a risk factor for prostate cancer. Evidently seman has a shelf life and can go bad. So if you are on a dry spell I would suggest cleaning the pipes once every two weeks.
 

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I'll give my standard warning for the older guys. Too infrequent ejaculation is a risk factor for prostate cancer. Evidently seman has a shelf life and can go bad. So if you are on a dry spell I would suggest cleaning the pipes once every two weeks.
I honestly don't think I'll ever have this problem. At the moment, I'm getting some p*ssy or rubbing one out every other day. It's going to be near impossible for me to go 2 weeks.
 

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I'll give my standard warning for the older guys. Too infrequent ejaculation is a risk factor for prostate cancer. Evidently seman has a shelf life and can go bad. So if you are on a dry spell I would suggest cleaning the pipes once every two weeks.
The woman I am with now always jokes that she is coming over to improve my "prostate health" lol.... I think I have the healthiest one on SS.
 

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Stop doing the knuckle shuffle, eat meats, avoid soy, exercise, build muscle. Don't drink a lot of beer, don't do a lot of weed and you can increase your testosterone. However, it is also based partly on your family genome. That, you cannot influence without hard drugs like HGH and stuff.
 

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How do you know if your T levels are high or low without going to a doctor (I'm not wasting my time doing that)?

I've always had a feeling I might be lacking, only because I was raised by a women, lots of women in my family and I am quite sensitive/emotional at times. My voice is also softer than I look like it should be. I have no problem attracting women though and I have a very high libido.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'll give my standard warning for the older guys. Too infrequent ejaculation is a risk factor for prostate cancer. Evidently seman has a shelf life and can go bad. So if you are on a dry spell I would suggest cleaning the pipes once every two weeks.
Man, that's the opposite of the No Fap guys. Figuring out what to believe can be a dilemma.
 

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I believe its not just test itself but how receptors grab it, you can have the most efficient mail delivery system with hundreds of postmen but if the receiver sleep instead of opening the door, there may be a problem.

We know some people is sensitive to DHT in terms of hairloss cause their scalp receptors are very active, yet no one tought about receptors in the rest of the body being more or less responsive.
 

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Philosophically I agree with the no fap guys but hey that gives you two weeks to find a girl to shag. The problem is the study didn't say what the shelf life was so maybe once a month would be okay. Anyway I can't imagine once every two weeks would be psychologically or physically debilitating. But yes obviously finding a girl would be much much better. Preferably finding several girls.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0302283816003778

That is a follow-up study looking at the original findings in the light of a decade of further research. Basically they found more squirting equals a happier prostate. The science looks pretty solid and prostate cancer risk rises with age so I'd suggest older members take this advice if in a dry spell.

Conclusions
These findings provide additional evidence of a beneficial role of more frequent ejaculation throughout adult life in the etiology of PCa, particularly for low-risk disease.
 
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