"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quite the psych problem.

GloriouslyInsane

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I've lately noticed that im having this big friggin problem.I can't seem to balance out myself,sometimes im a fully pledged AFC,othertimes im an complete jerk.I think im overtrying (sp..?) to be a DJ and its taking its toll on my mood,sometimes i feel an insecure piece of sh!t,others like im at the top of the world, this is really fvcking me up psychologically and my social circle (my mates say im a headcase :p).Anyone been through this phase that can help me out?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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Work on your inner game.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
 

Mr_knowit_all

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GloriouslyInsane said:
If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
What you're saying is you have your good days and your bad days like everyone else. I'll try to not be so vague: You're completely normal!!!

The more you do work on your "inner game", the more good days you'll have.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Nah im not talking about days,like hours, my mood is a ****ing rollercoaster going from one extreme end to the other.Like i read in someones sig,i believe im afraid of the things i can accomplish.

Gotta work on that inner game,im putting too much importance on women and gaming these days.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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