"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Quite the psych problem.

GloriouslyInsane

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I've lately noticed that im having this big friggin problem.I can't seem to balance out myself,sometimes im a fully pledged AFC,othertimes im an complete jerk.I think im overtrying (sp..?) to be a DJ and its taking its toll on my mood,sometimes i feel an insecure piece of sh!t,others like im at the top of the world, this is really fvcking me up psychologically and my social circle (my mates say im a headcase :p).Anyone been through this phase that can help me out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Work on your inner game.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
What you're saying is you have your good days and your bad days like everyone else. I'll try to not be so vague: You're completely normal!!!

The more you do work on your "inner game", the more good days you'll have.
 

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Nah im not talking about days,like hours, my mood is a ****ing rollercoaster going from one extreme end to the other.Like i read in someones sig,i believe im afraid of the things i can accomplish.

Gotta work on that inner game,im putting too much importance on women and gaming these days.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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