"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Quite the psych problem.

GloriouslyInsane

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I've lately noticed that im having this big friggin problem.I can't seem to balance out myself,sometimes im a fully pledged AFC,othertimes im an complete jerk.I think im overtrying (sp..?) to be a DJ and its taking its toll on my mood,sometimes i feel an insecure piece of sh!t,others like im at the top of the world, this is really fvcking me up psychologically and my social circle (my mates say im a headcase :p).Anyone been through this phase that can help me out?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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Work on your inner game.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
What you're saying is you have your good days and your bad days like everyone else. I'll try to not be so vague: You're completely normal!!!

The more you do work on your "inner game", the more good days you'll have.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Nah im not talking about days,like hours, my mood is a ****ing rollercoaster going from one extreme end to the other.Like i read in someones sig,i believe im afraid of the things i can accomplish.

Gotta work on that inner game,im putting too much importance on women and gaming these days.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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