"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quite the psych problem.

GloriouslyInsane

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I've lately noticed that im having this big friggin problem.I can't seem to balance out myself,sometimes im a fully pledged AFC,othertimes im an complete jerk.I think im overtrying (sp..?) to be a DJ and its taking its toll on my mood,sometimes i feel an insecure piece of sh!t,others like im at the top of the world, this is really fvcking me up psychologically and my social circle (my mates say im a headcase :p).Anyone been through this phase that can help me out?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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Work on your inner game.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
 

Mr_knowit_all

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GloriouslyInsane said:
If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
What you're saying is you have your good days and your bad days like everyone else. I'll try to not be so vague: You're completely normal!!!

The more you do work on your "inner game", the more good days you'll have.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Nah im not talking about days,like hours, my mood is a ****ing rollercoaster going from one extreme end to the other.Like i read in someones sig,i believe im afraid of the things i can accomplish.

Gotta work on that inner game,im putting too much importance on women and gaming these days.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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