"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Quite the psych problem.

GloriouslyInsane

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I've lately noticed that im having this big friggin problem.I can't seem to balance out myself,sometimes im a fully pledged AFC,othertimes im an complete jerk.I think im overtrying (sp..?) to be a DJ and its taking its toll on my mood,sometimes i feel an insecure piece of sh!t,others like im at the top of the world, this is really fvcking me up psychologically and my social circle (my mates say im a headcase :p).Anyone been through this phase that can help me out?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Work on your inner game.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
 

Mr_knowit_all

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GloriouslyInsane said:
If that wasn't vague,i don't know what is :p.I can see your point though,my inner game is like a ****ing whirlwind atm.
What you're saying is you have your good days and your bad days like everyone else. I'll try to not be so vague: You're completely normal!!!

The more you do work on your "inner game", the more good days you'll have.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Nah im not talking about days,like hours, my mood is a ****ing rollercoaster going from one extreme end to the other.Like i read in someones sig,i believe im afraid of the things i can accomplish.

Gotta work on that inner game,im putting too much importance on women and gaming these days.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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