"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Quickest Way to SUM UP What EVERY WOMEN WANTS!!

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ_Hero said:
Can someone please expand on this "pleasing emotions" sh1t? It's often thrown around her and I have no idea what people mean, how would I go about "emotionally fúcking" someone?
You're supposed to take a girl on an emotional rollercoaster. It's no good having a relationship and not letting your girl experience the ups and the downs. This means making her go through emotions like anger, sadness, excitement, surprise, fear, jealousy and horniness, even if it is whimsical and illogical.

Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on. I'm not saying abuse your girlfriend, but make sure she experiences a wide spectrum of emotions when she is dating you. Keep it impulsive and unpredictable.
 

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DJ_Hero said:
Can someone please expand on this "pleasing emotions" sh1t? It's often thrown around her and I have no idea what people mean, how would I go about "emotionally fúcking" someone?
Occasionally beat the **** out of her with something blunt.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
And yes, it really is THIS simple:

Every woman just wants a cool guy who is fun, can give her emotional and sexual pleasure, and will make all of her friends jealous. PERIOD.

That one sentence sums it all up..........it really is that simple.
An who is good looking according to the definition in her culture.. the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..
 

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the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..
If thats the only thing they talk than they are perfect for a one night stand, if you have looks you can lie about the money or if you got money you can gain social status ("charm" in women language").
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonGorgon said:
An who is good looking according to the definition in her culture.. the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..
We left that off because Just a Shot Away might post his bs about that here.

What kind of job do you work anyway?
 

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We left that off because Just a Shot Away might post his bs about that here.

What kind of job do you work anyway?
marketing department of a phone company.

everyday they have a new story about how cute and or rich some guy is sex is clearly no as important to them except when they has craving for it and at those times they have one or two established F buddies who they go to...

They stand around ant talk about which guys at the company they would F just based on looks then based on money..

important note.. they only mention personality when they find the guy to be very unattractive and most times they mention that he is also annoying for trying to approach them while not being cute or rich..lololol
 

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important note.. they only mention personality when they find the guy to be very unattractive and most times they mention that he is also annoying for trying to approach them while not being cute or rich..lololol
I have that in my job too, but who is cute and atractive seems to vary day by day (and who is leading the talk).
 

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Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on.
Honestly, from what I've seen, the girl will eventually jettison an abusive boyfriend, if not sooner than later. Many girls will get rid of a guy at the first sign of abuse, for others it takes years. It probably depends to some extent how much self esteem the girl has.

So this emotional rollercoaster idea probably works well in the short term, but if a guy is abusing a girl at some point she is going to wake up and not take it anymore. Usually.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaptainJ said:
You're supposed to take a girl on an emotional rollercoaster. It's no good having a relationship and not letting your girl experience the ups and the downs. This means making her go through emotions like anger, sadness, excitement, surprise, fear, jealousy and horniness, even if it is whimsical and illogical.

Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on. I'm not saying abuse your girlfriend, but make sure she experiences a wide spectrum of emotions when she is dating you. Keep it impulsive and unpredictable.
How the heck do you plan an emotional rollercoaster? Randomly shout at her and break her things for no reason, then give her a "baby I'm so sorry"?
 

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They all just want to be fukked well.

like everyone else.

if they don't get that they start wanting other things.
 

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zekko said:
Honestly, from what I've seen, the girl will eventually jettison an abusive boyfriend, if not sooner than later. Many girls will get rid of a guy at the first sign of abuse, for others it takes years. It probably depends to some extent how much self esteem the girl has.

So this emotional rollercoaster idea probably works well in the short term, but if a guy is abusing a girl at some point she is going to wake up and not take it anymore. Usually.

Stupid guys think emotional rollercoaster = abusive. I am great at rollercoasters because I just poke fun and tease them at the right time. And always leave just a bit of imperfection for them to ***** about, so they don't start thinking too much :)
 

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How the heck do you plan an emotional rollercoaster? Randomly shout at her and break her things for no reason, then give her a "baby I'm so sorry"?
Lol, it's a legit question, I've found it a bit confusing also. Like you say, how do you plan this? If it's just teasing, why call it an emotional rollercoaster? Just call it teasing.

I mean, what do you do, go down some kind of checklist?
Fear - Pulled out in front of an oncoming semi. Check.
Surprise - Waited for her to come out of her house and jumped out from the bushes. Check.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko said:
Lol, it's a legit question, I've found it a bit confusing also. Like you say, how do you plan this? If it's just teasing, why call it an emotional rollercoaster? Just call it teasing.

I mean, what do you do, go down some kind of checklist?
Fear - Pulled out in front of an oncoming semi. Check.
Surprise - Waited for her to come out of her house and jumped out from the bushes. Check.
Yeah this emotional rollercoaster thing doesn't sound very nice. Surely only a girl with issues would put up with any kind of abuse.

Best place to jump out at someone is when they're coming out of the loo, it's the last thing they expect. The reactions are priceless, never fails to amuse me.
 

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Teasing sounds a lot better. Just this past year I've started to tease girls more often and it's so fun. I guess that's why neg hits work. I don't try to think about negging girls but just making fun of them. Laughing with them.

I could tell that this one girl in one of my classes who I teased and talked to a lot was starting to like me, but she had a strict Muslim background, even though she looked white, and I thought her culture would be too much of a hassle for me to get over with my current skills.
 

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Yeah this emotional rollercoaster thing doesn't sound very nice. Surely only a girl with issues would put up with any kind of abuse.

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Then why is it that ALL girls respond to it?
 

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Rollercoaster simply means you dont fall into one behavior, like most guys do - they just "ok honey" and bore the girl to tears


saying "NO" is a big one

doing something that she might not like, standing your ground.. etc

you don't have to be a **** or a douche, just do what you like and stand your ground once in awhile
 

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horaholic said:
Then why is it that ALL girls respond to it?
What kind of emotional rollercoaster are we talking about here though? How are you provoking her?

What maxtro mentioned above, teasing, that's not an emotional rollercoaster, that's just banter! Guys do it between guys all the time too.

At the end of the day if I wanna cry I'll go and watch a sad film, I don't want a guy to go and hurt my feelings for the sake of giving me an 'emotional rollercoaster', it would make me lose trust in him. Trust goes hand in hand with respect, if you start losing my trust then you start losing my respect too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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