“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Quickest Way to SUM UP What EVERY WOMEN WANTS!!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ_Hero said:
Can someone please expand on this "pleasing emotions" sh1t? It's often thrown around her and I have no idea what people mean, how would I go about "emotionally fúcking" someone?
You're supposed to take a girl on an emotional rollercoaster. It's no good having a relationship and not letting your girl experience the ups and the downs. This means making her go through emotions like anger, sadness, excitement, surprise, fear, jealousy and horniness, even if it is whimsical and illogical.

Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on. I'm not saying abuse your girlfriend, but make sure she experiences a wide spectrum of emotions when she is dating you. Keep it impulsive and unpredictable.
 

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DJ_Hero said:
Can someone please expand on this "pleasing emotions" sh1t? It's often thrown around her and I have no idea what people mean, how would I go about "emotionally fúcking" someone?
Occasionally beat the **** out of her with something blunt.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
And yes, it really is THIS simple:

Every woman just wants a cool guy who is fun, can give her emotional and sexual pleasure, and will make all of her friends jealous. PERIOD.

That one sentence sums it all up..........it really is that simple.
An who is good looking according to the definition in her culture.. the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..
 

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DonGorgon said:
the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..
If thats the only thing they talk than they are perfect for a one night stand, if you have looks you can lie about the money or if you got money you can gain social status ("charm" in women language").
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonGorgon said:
An who is good looking according to the definition in her culture.. the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..
We left that off because Just a Shot Away might post his bs about that here.

What kind of job do you work anyway?
 

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nismo-4 said:
We left that off because Just a Shot Away might post his bs about that here.

What kind of job do you work anyway?
marketing department of a phone company.

everyday they have a new story about how cute and or rich some guy is sex is clearly no as important to them except when they has craving for it and at those times they have one or two established F buddies who they go to...

They stand around ant talk about which guys at the company they would F just based on looks then based on money..

important note.. they only mention personality when they find the guy to be very unattractive and most times they mention that he is also annoying for trying to approach them while not being cute or rich..lololol
 

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DonGorgon said:
important note.. they only mention personality when they find the guy to be very unattractive and most times they mention that he is also annoying for trying to approach them while not being cute or rich..lololol
I have that in my job too, but who is cute and atractive seems to vary day by day (and who is leading the talk).
 

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Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on.
Honestly, from what I've seen, the girl will eventually jettison an abusive boyfriend, if not sooner than later. Many girls will get rid of a guy at the first sign of abuse, for others it takes years. It probably depends to some extent how much self esteem the girl has.

So this emotional rollercoaster idea probably works well in the short term, but if a guy is abusing a girl at some point she is going to wake up and not take it anymore. Usually.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CaptainJ said:
You're supposed to take a girl on an emotional rollercoaster. It's no good having a relationship and not letting your girl experience the ups and the downs. This means making her go through emotions like anger, sadness, excitement, surprise, fear, jealousy and horniness, even if it is whimsical and illogical.

Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on. I'm not saying abuse your girlfriend, but make sure she experiences a wide spectrum of emotions when she is dating you. Keep it impulsive and unpredictable.
How the heck do you plan an emotional rollercoaster? Randomly shout at her and break her things for no reason, then give her a "baby I'm so sorry"?
 

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They all just want to be fukked well.

like everyone else.

if they don't get that they start wanting other things.
 

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zekko said:
Honestly, from what I've seen, the girl will eventually jettison an abusive boyfriend, if not sooner than later. Many girls will get rid of a guy at the first sign of abuse, for others it takes years. It probably depends to some extent how much self esteem the girl has.

So this emotional rollercoaster idea probably works well in the short term, but if a guy is abusing a girl at some point she is going to wake up and not take it anymore. Usually.

Stupid guys think emotional rollercoaster = abusive. I am great at rollercoasters because I just poke fun and tease them at the right time. And always leave just a bit of imperfection for them to ***** about, so they don't start thinking too much :)
 

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How the heck do you plan an emotional rollercoaster? Randomly shout at her and break her things for no reason, then give her a "baby I'm so sorry"?
Lol, it's a legit question, I've found it a bit confusing also. Like you say, how do you plan this? If it's just teasing, why call it an emotional rollercoaster? Just call it teasing.

I mean, what do you do, go down some kind of checklist?
Fear - Pulled out in front of an oncoming semi. Check.
Surprise - Waited for her to come out of her house and jumped out from the bushes. Check.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko said:
Lol, it's a legit question, I've found it a bit confusing also. Like you say, how do you plan this? If it's just teasing, why call it an emotional rollercoaster? Just call it teasing.

I mean, what do you do, go down some kind of checklist?
Fear - Pulled out in front of an oncoming semi. Check.
Surprise - Waited for her to come out of her house and jumped out from the bushes. Check.
Yeah this emotional rollercoaster thing doesn't sound very nice. Surely only a girl with issues would put up with any kind of abuse.

Best place to jump out at someone is when they're coming out of the loo, it's the last thing they expect. The reactions are priceless, never fails to amuse me.
 

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Teasing sounds a lot better. Just this past year I've started to tease girls more often and it's so fun. I guess that's why neg hits work. I don't try to think about negging girls but just making fun of them. Laughing with them.

I could tell that this one girl in one of my classes who I teased and talked to a lot was starting to like me, but she had a strict Muslim background, even though she looked white, and I thought her culture would be too much of a hassle for me to get over with my current skills.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
Yeah this emotional rollercoaster thing doesn't sound very nice. Surely only a girl with issues would put up with any kind of abuse.

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Then why is it that ALL girls respond to it?
 

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Rollercoaster simply means you dont fall into one behavior, like most guys do - they just "ok honey" and bore the girl to tears


saying "NO" is a big one

doing something that she might not like, standing your ground.. etc

you don't have to be a **** or a douche, just do what you like and stand your ground once in awhile
 

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horaholic said:
Then why is it that ALL girls respond to it?
What kind of emotional rollercoaster are we talking about here though? How are you provoking her?

What maxtro mentioned above, teasing, that's not an emotional rollercoaster, that's just banter! Guys do it between guys all the time too.

At the end of the day if I wanna cry I'll go and watch a sad film, I don't want a guy to go and hurt my feelings for the sake of giving me an 'emotional rollercoaster', it would make me lose trust in him. Trust goes hand in hand with respect, if you start losing my trust then you start losing my respect too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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