CuriousGirl
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No it's just true for me! If I'm on a treadmill I won't run for as long as I would running outside..HolyG said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You're supposed to take a girl on an emotional rollercoaster. It's no good having a relationship and not letting your girl experience the ups and the downs. This means making her go through emotions like anger, sadness, excitement, surprise, fear, jealousy and horniness, even if it is whimsical and illogical.DJ_Hero said:
Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on. I'm not saying abuse your girlfriend, but make sure she experiences a wide spectrum of emotions when she is dating you. Keep it impulsive and unpredictable.
DonGorgon
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An who is good looking according to the definition in her culture.. the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..Rescue Mission said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Razor Sharp
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1. Your attention
2. Your leadership
3. Your ability to give her multiple orgasms consistently
2. Your leadership
3. Your ability to give her multiple orgasms consistently
nismo-4
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We left that off because Just a Shot Away might post his bs about that here.DonGorgon said:
What kind of job do you work anyway?
DonGorgon
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marketing department of a phone company.nismo-4 said:
everyday they have a new story about how cute and or rich some guy is sex is clearly no as important to them except when they has craving for it and at those times they have one or two established F buddies who they go to...
They stand around ant talk about which guys at the company they would F just based on looks then based on money..
important note.. they only mention personality when they find the guy to be very unattractive and most times they mention that he is also annoying for trying to approach them while not being cute or rich..lololol
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Honestly, from what I've seen, the girl will eventually jettison an abusive boyfriend, if not sooner than later. Many girls will get rid of a guy at the first sign of abuse, for others it takes years. It probably depends to some extent how much self esteem the girl has.
So this emotional rollercoaster idea probably works well in the short term, but if a guy is abusing a girl at some point she is going to wake up and not take it anymore. Usually.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
How the heck do you plan an emotional rollercoaster? Randomly shout at her and break her things for no reason, then give her a "baby I'm so sorry"?CaptainJ said:
zekko said:
Stupid guys think emotional rollercoaster = abusive. I am great at rollercoasters because I just poke fun and tease them at the right time. And always leave just a bit of imperfection for them to ***** about, so they don't start thinking too much
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girl wants a guy with a big clock.
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Lol, it's a legit question, I've found it a bit confusing also. Like you say, how do you plan this? If it's just teasing, why call it an emotional rollercoaster? Just call it teasing.
I mean, what do you do, go down some kind of checklist?
Fear - Pulled out in front of an oncoming semi. Check.
Surprise - Waited for her to come out of her house and jumped out from the bushes. Check.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CuriousGirl
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Yeah this emotional rollercoaster thing doesn't sound very nice. Surely only a girl with issues would put up with any kind of abuse.zekko said:
Best place to jump out at someone is when they're coming out of the loo, it's the last thing they expect. The reactions are priceless, never fails to amuse me.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Teasing sounds a lot better. Just this past year I've started to tease girls more often and it's so fun. I guess that's why neg hits work. I don't try to think about negging girls but just making fun of them. Laughing with them.
I could tell that this one girl in one of my classes who I teased and talked to a lot was starting to like me, but she had a strict Muslim background, even though she looked white, and I thought her culture would be too much of a hassle for me to get over with my current skills.
I could tell that this one girl in one of my classes who I teased and talked to a lot was starting to like me, but she had a strict Muslim background, even though she looked white, and I thought her culture would be too much of a hassle for me to get over with my current skills.
Rollercoaster simply means you dont fall into one behavior, like most guys do - they just "ok honey" and bore the girl to tears
saying "NO" is a big one
doing something that she might not like, standing your ground.. etc
you don't have to be a **** or a douche, just do what you like and stand your ground once in awhile
saying "NO" is a big one
doing something that she might not like, standing your ground.. etc
you don't have to be a **** or a douche, just do what you like and stand your ground once in awhile
CuriousGirl
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What kind of emotional rollercoaster are we talking about here though? How are you provoking her?horaholic said:
What maxtro mentioned above, teasing, that's not an emotional rollercoaster, that's just banter! Guys do it between guys all the time too.
At the end of the day if I wanna cry I'll go and watch a sad film, I don't want a guy to go and hurt my feelings for the sake of giving me an 'emotional rollercoaster', it would make me lose trust in him. Trust goes hand in hand with respect, if you start losing my trust then you start losing my respect too.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.