CuriousGirl
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No it's just true for me! If I'm on a treadmill I won't run for as long as I would running outside..HolyG said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You're supposed to take a girl on an emotional rollercoaster. It's no good having a relationship and not letting your girl experience the ups and the downs. This means making her go through emotions like anger, sadness, excitement, surprise, fear, jealousy and horniness, even if it is whimsical and illogical.DJ_Hero said:
Why do you think girls who are abused by their boyfriends stay with them, they are in it for the emotional rollercoaster their bf takes them on. I'm not saying abuse your girlfriend, but make sure she experiences a wide spectrum of emotions when she is dating you. Keep it impulsive and unpredictable.
DonGorgon
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An who is good looking according to the definition in her culture.. the women at my job only talk about looks and money then ocasionaly sex but they are constantly asking how a guy look sand who much money he has..Rescue Mission said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Razor Sharp
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1. Your attention
2. Your leadership
3. Your ability to give her multiple orgasms consistently
2. Your leadership
3. Your ability to give her multiple orgasms consistently
nismo-4
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We left that off because Just a Shot Away might post his bs about that here.DonGorgon said:
What kind of job do you work anyway?
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marketing department of a phone company.nismo-4 said:
everyday they have a new story about how cute and or rich some guy is sex is clearly no as important to them except when they has craving for it and at those times they have one or two established F buddies who they go to...
They stand around ant talk about which guys at the company they would F just based on looks then based on money..
important note.. they only mention personality when they find the guy to be very unattractive and most times they mention that he is also annoying for trying to approach them while not being cute or rich..lololol
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Honestly, from what I've seen, the girl will eventually jettison an abusive boyfriend, if not sooner than later. Many girls will get rid of a guy at the first sign of abuse, for others it takes years. It probably depends to some extent how much self esteem the girl has.
So this emotional rollercoaster idea probably works well in the short term, but if a guy is abusing a girl at some point she is going to wake up and not take it anymore. Usually.
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Maxtro
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How the heck do you plan an emotional rollercoaster? Randomly shout at her and break her things for no reason, then give her a "baby I'm so sorry"?CaptainJ said:
zekko said:
Stupid guys think emotional rollercoaster = abusive. I am great at rollercoasters because I just poke fun and tease them at the right time. And always leave just a bit of imperfection for them to ***** about, so they don't start thinking too much
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girl wants a guy with a big clock.
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Lol, it's a legit question, I've found it a bit confusing also. Like you say, how do you plan this? If it's just teasing, why call it an emotional rollercoaster? Just call it teasing.
I mean, what do you do, go down some kind of checklist?
Fear - Pulled out in front of an oncoming semi. Check.
Surprise - Waited for her to come out of her house and jumped out from the bushes. Check.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
CuriousGirl
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Yeah this emotional rollercoaster thing doesn't sound very nice. Surely only a girl with issues would put up with any kind of abuse.zekko said:
Best place to jump out at someone is when they're coming out of the loo, it's the last thing they expect. The reactions are priceless, never fails to amuse me.
Maxtro
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Teasing sounds a lot better. Just this past year I've started to tease girls more often and it's so fun. I guess that's why neg hits work. I don't try to think about negging girls but just making fun of them. Laughing with them.
I could tell that this one girl in one of my classes who I teased and talked to a lot was starting to like me, but she had a strict Muslim background, even though she looked white, and I thought her culture would be too much of a hassle for me to get over with my current skills.
I could tell that this one girl in one of my classes who I teased and talked to a lot was starting to like me, but she had a strict Muslim background, even though she looked white, and I thought her culture would be too much of a hassle for me to get over with my current skills.
Rollercoaster simply means you dont fall into one behavior, like most guys do - they just "ok honey" and bore the girl to tears
saying "NO" is a big one
doing something that she might not like, standing your ground.. etc
you don't have to be a **** or a douche, just do what you like and stand your ground once in awhile
saying "NO" is a big one
doing something that she might not like, standing your ground.. etc
you don't have to be a **** or a douche, just do what you like and stand your ground once in awhile
CuriousGirl
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What kind of emotional rollercoaster are we talking about here though? How are you provoking her?horaholic said:
What maxtro mentioned above, teasing, that's not an emotional rollercoaster, that's just banter! Guys do it between guys all the time too.
At the end of the day if I wanna cry I'll go and watch a sad film, I don't want a guy to go and hurt my feelings for the sake of giving me an 'emotional rollercoaster', it would make me lose trust in him. Trust goes hand in hand with respect, if you start losing my trust then you start losing my respect too.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.