2nd Thought
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The second one hands down...Its crazy to me that somebody would even consider the first over the second...but we see who has the modeling gig and who doesn't so....
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
hotornot is retarded...you cannot go off those ratings whatsoever. it might not be nasty, but its nothing special. im not really into asians but when i see a hot one ill admit it, and this isnt one. ive posted like 30 pics of girls ive been with over the past few days, im tired of doing it. theyre in a thread somewherecordoncordon said:If the first girl has a nasty face, I would love to see some of the girls you are dating. Post some pics? Because they must be angels with puppies and kittens dancing above their heads with a heavenly glow eminating from their body if you think that girl's face is nasty.
Again, that first girl is a regular everyday girl with no professional lighting, photoshop, or heavy makeup. I'll take that everyday of the week and twice on Sunday compared to some other girls you see on the internet. BTW I see she is a 9.9 on hotornot.
I am assuming you mean these pics?falconslax89 said:hotornot is retarded...you cannot go off those ratings whatsoever. it might not be nasty, but its nothing special. im not really into asians but when i see a hot one ill admit it, and this isnt one. ive posted like 30 pics of girls ive been with over the past few days, im tired of doing it. theyre in a thread somewhere
Yeah, intimidated that she would eat me after she got done fvcking me lol.DonGorgon said:the white one will win... that was too damn easy... but many men would be too intimidated by her for marriage and would marry the asian and F the white one on the side..lol
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cordoncordon said:Yeah, intimidated that would eat me after she got done fvcking me lol.
Have you see the size of her calves? They are the size of my thighs. Speaking of her thighs, I think they are bigger than those of Ray Lewis lol. Her azz? Thing looks like its got 1000 pounds of fat inside of it. Cannot see how anyone can find that attractive, all that fat jiggling and bubbling around while you are doing her from behind.
But, to each his own!
Not too bad at allTazman said:For the guys that say girl 2 is huge, is this chick too big for you?
http://xc0.xanga.com/903f1a0506133229757018/m181011602.jpg
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
On a scale of 1-100?Mike32ct said:The first girl is hot. I'd give her like 8.5.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yes i second thiscordoncordon said:I am assuming you mean these pics?
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k...n=view¤t=n1302510093_30048008_5682.jpg&
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And oh btw, as for your own look, a piece of advice. Stick to the short haircut, like you have in #17. Suits you so much better than that Richie Cunningham look you've been toolin' around town with in all the others. Good luck!
First girl doesn't have her pic up anymore...trust me she was hot.Ice882 said:wow, both SO not hot, fvcked up faces.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.