2nd Thought
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The second one hands down...Its crazy to me that somebody would even consider the first over the second...but we see who has the modeling gig and who doesn't so....
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hotornot is retarded...you cannot go off those ratings whatsoever. it might not be nasty, but its nothing special. im not really into asians but when i see a hot one ill admit it, and this isnt one. ive posted like 30 pics of girls ive been with over the past few days, im tired of doing it. theyre in a thread somewherecordoncordon said:If the first girl has a nasty face, I would love to see some of the girls you are dating. Post some pics? Because they must be angels with puppies and kittens dancing above their heads with a heavenly glow eminating from their body if you think that girl's face is nasty.
Again, that first girl is a regular everyday girl with no professional lighting, photoshop, or heavy makeup. I'll take that everyday of the week and twice on Sunday compared to some other girls you see on the internet. BTW I see she is a 9.9 on hotornot.
I am assuming you mean these pics?falconslax89 said:hotornot is retarded...you cannot go off those ratings whatsoever. it might not be nasty, but its nothing special. im not really into asians but when i see a hot one ill admit it, and this isnt one. ive posted like 30 pics of girls ive been with over the past few days, im tired of doing it. theyre in a thread somewhere
Yeah, intimidated that she would eat me after she got done fvcking me lol.DonGorgon said:the white one will win... that was too damn easy... but many men would be too intimidated by her for marriage and would marry the asian and F the white one on the side..lol
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
cordoncordon said:Yeah, intimidated that would eat me after she got done fvcking me lol.
Have you see the size of her calves? They are the size of my thighs. Speaking of her thighs, I think they are bigger than those of Ray Lewis lol. Her azz? Thing looks like its got 1000 pounds of fat inside of it. Cannot see how anyone can find that attractive, all that fat jiggling and bubbling around while you are doing her from behind.
But, to each his own!
Not too bad at allTazman said:For the guys that say girl 2 is huge, is this chick too big for you?
http://xc0.xanga.com/903f1a0506133229757018/m181011602.jpg
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
On a scale of 1-100?Mike32ct said:The first girl is hot. I'd give her like 8.5.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
yes i second thiscordoncordon said:I am assuming you mean these pics?
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k...n=view¤t=n1302510093_30048008_5682.jpg&
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And oh btw, as for your own look, a piece of advice. Stick to the short haircut, like you have in #17. Suits you so much better than that Richie Cunningham look you've been toolin' around town with in all the others. Good luck!
First girl doesn't have her pic up anymore...trust me she was hot.Ice882 said:wow, both SO not hot, fvcked up faces.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.