2nd Thought
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The second one hands down...Its crazy to me that somebody would even consider the first over the second...but we see who has the modeling gig and who doesn't so....
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
hotornot is retarded...you cannot go off those ratings whatsoever. it might not be nasty, but its nothing special. im not really into asians but when i see a hot one ill admit it, and this isnt one. ive posted like 30 pics of girls ive been with over the past few days, im tired of doing it. theyre in a thread somewherecordoncordon said:If the first girl has a nasty face, I would love to see some of the girls you are dating. Post some pics? Because they must be angels with puppies and kittens dancing above their heads with a heavenly glow eminating from their body if you think that girl's face is nasty.
Again, that first girl is a regular everyday girl with no professional lighting, photoshop, or heavy makeup. I'll take that everyday of the week and twice on Sunday compared to some other girls you see on the internet. BTW I see she is a 9.9 on hotornot.
I am assuming you mean these pics?falconslax89 said:hotornot is retarded...you cannot go off those ratings whatsoever. it might not be nasty, but its nothing special. im not really into asians but when i see a hot one ill admit it, and this isnt one. ive posted like 30 pics of girls ive been with over the past few days, im tired of doing it. theyre in a thread somewhere
Yeah, intimidated that she would eat me after she got done fvcking me lol.DonGorgon said:the white one will win... that was too damn easy... but many men would be too intimidated by her for marriage and would marry the asian and F the white one on the side..lol
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
cordoncordon said:Yeah, intimidated that would eat me after she got done fvcking me lol.
Have you see the size of her calves? They are the size of my thighs. Speaking of her thighs, I think they are bigger than those of Ray Lewis lol. Her azz? Thing looks like its got 1000 pounds of fat inside of it. Cannot see how anyone can find that attractive, all that fat jiggling and bubbling around while you are doing her from behind.
But, to each his own!
Not too bad at allTazman said:For the guys that say girl 2 is huge, is this chick too big for you?
http://xc0.xanga.com/903f1a0506133229757018/m181011602.jpg
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
On a scale of 1-100?Mike32ct said:The first girl is hot. I'd give her like 8.5.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yes i second thiscordoncordon said:I am assuming you mean these pics?
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k...n=view¤t=n1302510093_30048008_5682.jpg&
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And oh btw, as for your own look, a piece of advice. Stick to the short haircut, like you have in #17. Suits you so much better than that Richie Cunningham look you've been toolin' around town with in all the others. Good luck!
First girl doesn't have her pic up anymore...trust me she was hot.Ice882 said:wow, both SO not hot, fvcked up faces.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.