"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cordoncordon

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bish0p said:
+1. I've been getting my new girl to tan more often, wear a little more make up, and dress a little sluttier. She does now without me even having to ask.
Pic? :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cordoncordon said:
Purely a "just because I'm curious" question here. Who in your opinion is more attractive between the two girls listed here? And rating on each?

Girl 1?

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=KMRYHRHEAL&key=JUG

Or Girl 2?

http://media.photobucket.com/image/summer walker/RJJOHNSON1965/SCRAP%20PHOTOS/462c.jpg

I ask this because my buddy and I were discussing today men's preference for skinny petite girls compared to curvier women. We disagreed and I wanted to see what the consensus is here.

In edit and to be fair. The first girl is a regular everyday girl, no heavy makeup, no professional photo, and no photoshop. The 2nd girl is a model and has the full "makeover' that they get in a professional photo shoot. Couldn't find a pic of a regular curvier girl that we all could agree was attractive, so used the pro.
#2 FTW! for a nice fat ass.
 

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#1 not a fan of her face, body is ok and i'm asian..lol

#2 like someone said, has a trashy vibe, face is so so.
 

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Number 1 seems to have that "nice" aura around her. Her breast size barely meets my minimum requirement.

But, number 2 gives me a better boner.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sharkybear you must have a hell of a breast size requirement! She has pretty big tits no?!
 

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The first one seems to have a better face, but how could anyone turn down the body of girl 2?

I know some guys like skinny girls but come on, I'd almost say some guys here are lying. I know you'd hit that!!
 

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The first one is skinny but she has curves in the right places as well, surely the holy grail of body types?!
 

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Miles28 said:
The first one is skinny but she has curves in the right places as well, surely the holy grail of body types?!
I have to agree. Looks like nice C cups on 115 pound girl with a small tight ass. To me thats how a perfect girl should be. What more could one ask for lol?

I'm just not into those girls like the 2nd one with thighs twice the size of mine, and asses the size of a small planet. I mean to me she looks like a linebacker, not feminine at all...but hey, that's why we are having this discussion. :)

EA gold I really would like to know the type of girls you are dating if you think that first girl is not that pretty and has just an ok bod. WOW! :) Are you dating Megan Fox or something haha?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cordon cordon I'm with you all the way. Of course it's just a discussion and I'm not saying that we're right and the posters preferring girl 2 are wrong, but personally for me there is no competition. Girl 1 is almost ideal for me. Now it's just the small question of finding a girl like that!!
 

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Miles28 said:
Cordon cordon I'm with you all the way. Of course it's just a discussion and I'm not saying that we're right and the posters preferring girl 2 are wrong, but personally for me there is no competition. Girl 1 is almost ideal for me. Now it's just the small question of finding a girl like that!!
Miles there are plenty of asians her size out here in CA, though you don't find many that pretty imo. BTW you have a PM.
 

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Hey Cordoncordon,

I'm in Japan - see my other post in the Mature Man bemoaning the quality of women out here (basically very few have breasts!). I'm very jealous of where you live, I should move to CA!!
 

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God that second girl is absolutely hideous. Definitely the first one, even though she's not the greatest.

I never understood this whole giant breast/chubby girl thing. I'm super picky about boobs though haha; I hate big ones and small ones. A perfect boob is like maybe a little more than a handful or two.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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trashy vibe ?? preferring girls because of make up ?? thunder thighs ?? having a nice aura around her ?? Dudes thinking OVERLY photoshopped pics look better than the pics that are closer to the real thing, damn...you guys watch to much TV and read to much Cosmo.

Some of the dudes that chose the first girl sound like chicks.


1st girl does nothing for me and has NO curves not even where they count.

2nd girl looks hot


p.s. I dont do ratings cause that shit is corny...cornier than the usual amount of corniness.
 
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OP did you get those links right?

-first girl, close to perfection from the neck down, at least what we can see in the pic. face ain't too bad either

-second girl... I might let her blow me, if she asked nicely and didn't mind that I was looking at the first girl while she did it, and even then I might need some liquoring first

I also thought this in the OP post was quite funny "Couldn't find a pic of a regular curvier girl that we all could agree was attractive" - lol what does that tell ya.

anyhow this thread is quite an eye-opener though huh? who'd have thought opinions would be so different.... it must be evolutions way of making sure everyone gets a shot at pro-creating. I will never believe any of your HB ratings again! :D
 

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Damn brahs id smash them both, they are bangable just based on these 2 pictures. However I think the comparison is skewed.

The most attractive is a chick with nice looking tits, a flat tummy, and legs/ass from squatting in the gym or being a dancer. or both. To me a worked out chick is the hottest, shows she cares and HOT bodys bros. Plus all the high maintanence ****, manicure/pedicure/tanning/hair done/slutty clothed basically your stereotypical hot chick stripper type...less trashy an more yoga type. but still slightly slutty.
 

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The first one is perfect.


I couldn't **** the second one on my own, no way. I'd need someone to help me get her off her feet, she's huge.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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