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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Question-who is more attractive?

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Purely a "just because I'm curious" question here. Who in your opinion is more attractive between the two girls listed here? And rating on each?

Girl 1?

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=KMRYHRHEAL&key=JUG

Or Girl 2?

http://media.photobucket.com/image/summer walker/RJJOHNSON1965/SCRAP%20PHOTOS/462c.jpg

I ask this because my buddy and I were discussing today men's preference for skinny petite girls compared to curvier women. We disagreed and I wanted to see what the consensus is here.

In edit and to be fair. The first girl is a regular everyday girl, no heavy makeup, no professional photo, and no photoshop. The 2nd girl is a model and has the full "makeover' that they get in a professional photo shoot. Couldn't find a pic of a regular curvier girl that we all could agree was attractive, so used the pro.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinny guys would probably prefer the thnner one

its good that poeple have different preferances

people on SS type sites often have have some delusional preferance for the cliche hot dolly blonde.

cordoncordon said:
I ask this because my buddy and I were discussing today men's preference for skinny petite girls compared to curvier women. We disagreed and I wanted to see what the consensus is here.
what was the disagrement
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You want me to tell your friend witch one he want to eat?


please.....
 

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Sandow said:
Not an option. I tried to pick 2 girls that represent both sides of the coin and that almost anyone at the very least can say is "attractive".
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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man I'm surprised at the responses. I prefer 2...she's like a 9.5 to me. Maybe it's because I'm black...
 

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Maxtro said:
Well, lets not forget that the first girl is a regular everyday girl, not made up, no airbrush etc.

The 2nd girl is a professional model with makeup, airbrush, etc.

Just trying to make things fair. Tried to find a regular girl pic of a curvier girl that everyone could agree was attractive, but had no luck, so used her.
 

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bish0p said:
man I'm surprised at the responses. I prefer 2...she's like a 9.5 to me. Maybe it's because I'm black...
That would seem to fit the stereotype.
 

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My apologies then. Though in some of Summer's pictures I think she is overly airbrushed and makes her actually look worse.

If you want me to remove the links just ask.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CuriousGirl said:
I'd say a cross between the two.

Why are you trying so hard to fit into a site that is FOR guys, ABOUT guys, and BY guys???

You are a a 19 year old girl........nobody is interested in your opinion in this thread, or any other thread.
 

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Maxtro said:
My apologies then. Though in some of Summer's pictures I think she is overly airbrushed and makes her actually look worse.

If you want me to remove the links just ask.
No it's fine. I happen to think that first girl is a 9.5, (hot hot HOT) so we'll give the other girl a little bit of an advantage with the modeling pics. :)
 
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cordoncordon said:
Well, lets not forget that the first girl is a regular everyday girl, not made up, no airbrush etc.

The 2nd girl is a professional model with makeup, airbrush, etc.

Just trying to make things fair. Tried to find a regular girl pic of a curvier girl that everyone could agree was attractive, but had no luck, so used her.

A girl is more feminine and more attractive by default when she puts on makeup and TRIES to look good.......that is the feminine nature.

A girl with "no makeup who is "natural" and "not really trying"" is less attractive automatically.

This is why I would prefer a girl with good makeup, wearing high heels, with a tan and nice tight clothing over a sporty pale girl in sweatpants.

I, unlike some of you, am still attracted to FEMININE women more than any other kind.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
A girl is more feminine and more attractive by default when she puts on makeup and TRIES to look good.......that is the feminine nature.

A girl with "no makeup who is "natural" and "not really trying"" is less attractive automatically.

This is why I would prefer a girl with good makeup, wearing high heels, with a tan and nice tight clothing over a sporty pale girl in sweatpants.

I, unlike some of you, am still attracted to FEMININE women more than any other kind.
I think you may be overanalyzing. I'm sure we can all agree we like a women who presents herself well. The first girl looks really feminine to me, and Im sure she has on some makeup. She just happens to be a regular everyday girl wearing a bathing suit in a regular everyday photo, as to the 2nd girl who is more made up and has a professional photo shoot.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
A girl is more feminine and more attractive by default when she puts on makeup and TRIES to look good.......that is the feminine nature.

A girl with "no makeup who is "natural" and "not really trying"" is less attractive automatically.

This is why I would prefer a girl with good makeup, wearing high heels, with a tan and nice tight clothing over a sporty pale girl in sweatpants.

I, unlike some of you, am still attracted to FEMININE women more than any other kind.
+1. I've been getting my new girl to tan more often, wear a little more make up, and dress a little sluttier. She does now without me even having to ask.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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