"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purely a "just because I'm curious" question here. Who in your opinion is more attractive between the two girls listed here? And rating on each?

Girl 1?

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=KMRYHRHEAL&key=JUG

Or Girl 2?

http://media.photobucket.com/image/summer walker/RJJOHNSON1965/SCRAP%20PHOTOS/462c.jpg

I ask this because my buddy and I were discussing today men's preference for skinny petite girls compared to curvier women. We disagreed and I wanted to see what the consensus is here.

In edit and to be fair. The first girl is a regular everyday girl, no heavy makeup, no professional photo, and no photoshop. The 2nd girl is a model and has the full "makeover' that they get in a professional photo shoot. Couldn't find a pic of a regular curvier girl that we all could agree was attractive, so used the pro.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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skinny guys would probably prefer the thnner one

its good that poeple have different preferances

people on SS type sites often have have some delusional preferance for the cliche hot dolly blonde.

cordoncordon said:
I ask this because my buddy and I were discussing today men's preference for skinny petite girls compared to curvier women. We disagreed and I wanted to see what the consensus is here.
what was the disagrement
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You want me to tell your friend witch one he want to eat?


please.....
 

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Sandow said:
Not an option. I tried to pick 2 girls that represent both sides of the coin and that almost anyone at the very least can say is "attractive".
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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man I'm surprised at the responses. I prefer 2...she's like a 9.5 to me. Maybe it's because I'm black...
 

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Maxtro said:
Well, lets not forget that the first girl is a regular everyday girl, not made up, no airbrush etc.

The 2nd girl is a professional model with makeup, airbrush, etc.

Just trying to make things fair. Tried to find a regular girl pic of a curvier girl that everyone could agree was attractive, but had no luck, so used her.
 

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bish0p said:
man I'm surprised at the responses. I prefer 2...she's like a 9.5 to me. Maybe it's because I'm black...
That would seem to fit the stereotype.
 

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My apologies then. Though in some of Summer's pictures I think she is overly airbrushed and makes her actually look worse.

If you want me to remove the links just ask.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CuriousGirl said:
I'd say a cross between the two.

Why are you trying so hard to fit into a site that is FOR guys, ABOUT guys, and BY guys???

You are a a 19 year old girl........nobody is interested in your opinion in this thread, or any other thread.
 

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My apologies then. Though in some of Summer's pictures I think she is overly airbrushed and makes her actually look worse.

If you want me to remove the links just ask.
No it's fine. I happen to think that first girl is a 9.5, (hot hot HOT) so we'll give the other girl a little bit of an advantage with the modeling pics. :)
 
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cordoncordon said:
Well, lets not forget that the first girl is a regular everyday girl, not made up, no airbrush etc.

The 2nd girl is a professional model with makeup, airbrush, etc.

Just trying to make things fair. Tried to find a regular girl pic of a curvier girl that everyone could agree was attractive, but had no luck, so used her.

A girl is more feminine and more attractive by default when she puts on makeup and TRIES to look good.......that is the feminine nature.

A girl with "no makeup who is "natural" and "not really trying"" is less attractive automatically.

This is why I would prefer a girl with good makeup, wearing high heels, with a tan and nice tight clothing over a sporty pale girl in sweatpants.

I, unlike some of you, am still attracted to FEMININE women more than any other kind.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
A girl is more feminine and more attractive by default when she puts on makeup and TRIES to look good.......that is the feminine nature.

A girl with "no makeup who is "natural" and "not really trying"" is less attractive automatically.

This is why I would prefer a girl with good makeup, wearing high heels, with a tan and nice tight clothing over a sporty pale girl in sweatpants.

I, unlike some of you, am still attracted to FEMININE women more than any other kind.
I think you may be overanalyzing. I'm sure we can all agree we like a women who presents herself well. The first girl looks really feminine to me, and Im sure she has on some makeup. She just happens to be a regular everyday girl wearing a bathing suit in a regular everyday photo, as to the 2nd girl who is more made up and has a professional photo shoot.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
A girl is more feminine and more attractive by default when she puts on makeup and TRIES to look good.......that is the feminine nature.

A girl with "no makeup who is "natural" and "not really trying"" is less attractive automatically.

This is why I would prefer a girl with good makeup, wearing high heels, with a tan and nice tight clothing over a sporty pale girl in sweatpants.

I, unlike some of you, am still attracted to FEMININE women more than any other kind.
+1. I've been getting my new girl to tan more often, wear a little more make up, and dress a little sluttier. She does now without me even having to ask.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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