Umbra
Master Don Juan
Yeah, man. One thing at a time. Work off the weight and focus on getting in shape. Then try women.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Question about Looks
- Thread starter Bigdavis
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ok it's been 4 years since I started this thread but better late than never right? I've lost 100lbs by eating right and lifting weights.
I think I'm finally ready to start honing my skills and talking to chicks.
Here is a before and after what do you think? http://www.canecreekcurs.com/untitled6.jpg
I think I'm finally ready to start honing my skills and talking to chicks.
Here is a before and after what do you think? http://www.canecreekcurs.com/untitled6.jpg
Good job Big David! You can really see the big progress you made!
If you feel confidend, I would say start sarging! Maybe join a bootcamp to keep you on track or start a topic with your field expirience so you can get feedback on your actions..
I wouldnt wear polo with stripes horizontal due to the fact that they will make you look bigger...
Props and keep going!
If you feel confidend, I would say start sarging! Maybe join a bootcamp to keep you on track or start a topic with your field expirience so you can get feedback on your actions..
I wouldnt wear polo with stripes horizontal due to the fact that they will make you look bigger...
Props and keep going!
ChicagoStyle
Don Juan
I used to be over 300 pounds too bro, and now I'm around 165/170. If you actually have the balls to see this through to the end you will get much more than you anticipated.....
I have a thread in the health section with before/after photos
I have a thread in the health section with before/after photos
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
FoolsCause
Don Juan
How about dating plus-sized women until you've lost the extra pounds?
You guys are always saying looks don't matter
Reality says looks matter ALOT !
Hot girls hook up with Hot guys. Ugly girls hook up with ugly guys etc
Not everybody is in the major leagues making 10 million per year. Some play single A, Double A, or Triple A. Some play tee-ball
Thats reality. We all have limits
Reality says looks matter ALOT !
Hot girls hook up with Hot guys. Ugly girls hook up with ugly guys etc
Not everybody is in the major leagues making 10 million per year. Some play single A, Double A, or Triple A. Some play tee-ball
Thats reality. We all have limits