Umbra
Master Don Juan
Yeah, man. One thing at a time. Work off the weight and focus on getting in shape. Then try women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Question about Looks
- Thread starter Bigdavis
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ok it's been 4 years since I started this thread but better late than never right? I've lost 100lbs by eating right and lifting weights.
I think I'm finally ready to start honing my skills and talking to chicks.
Here is a before and after what do you think? http://www.canecreekcurs.com/untitled6.jpg
I think I'm finally ready to start honing my skills and talking to chicks.
Here is a before and after what do you think? http://www.canecreekcurs.com/untitled6.jpg
Good job Big David! You can really see the big progress you made!
If you feel confidend, I would say start sarging! Maybe join a bootcamp to keep you on track or start a topic with your field expirience so you can get feedback on your actions..
I wouldnt wear polo with stripes horizontal due to the fact that they will make you look bigger...
Props and keep going!
If you feel confidend, I would say start sarging! Maybe join a bootcamp to keep you on track or start a topic with your field expirience so you can get feedback on your actions..
I wouldnt wear polo with stripes horizontal due to the fact that they will make you look bigger...
Props and keep going!
ChicagoStyle
Don Juan
I used to be over 300 pounds too bro, and now I'm around 165/170. If you actually have the balls to see this through to the end you will get much more than you anticipated.....
I have a thread in the health section with before/after photos
I have a thread in the health section with before/after photos
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FoolsCause
Don Juan
How about dating plus-sized women until you've lost the extra pounds?
You guys are always saying looks don't matter
Reality says looks matter ALOT !
Hot girls hook up with Hot guys. Ugly girls hook up with ugly guys etc
Not everybody is in the major leagues making 10 million per year. Some play single A, Double A, or Triple A. Some play tee-ball
Thats reality. We all have limits
Reality says looks matter ALOT !
Hot girls hook up with Hot guys. Ugly girls hook up with ugly guys etc
Not everybody is in the major leagues making 10 million per year. Some play single A, Double A, or Triple A. Some play tee-ball
Thats reality. We all have limits