"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about Looks

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bigdavis

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Ok it's been 4 years since I started this thread but better late than never right? I've lost 100lbs by eating right and lifting weights.

I think I'm finally ready to start honing my skills and talking to chicks.

Here is a before and after what do you think? http://www.canecreekcurs.com/untitled6.jpg
 

JDarko

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Good job Big David! You can really see the big progress you made!

If you feel confidend, I would say start sarging! Maybe join a bootcamp to keep you on track or start a topic with your field expirience so you can get feedback on your actions..

I wouldnt wear polo with stripes horizontal due to the fact that they will make you look bigger...

Props and keep going!:up:
 

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I used to be over 300 pounds too bro, and now I'm around 165/170. If you actually have the balls to see this through to the end you will get much more than you anticipated.....

I have a thread in the health section with before/after photos
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ryan69

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You guys are always saying looks don't matter

Reality says looks matter ALOT !

Hot girls hook up with Hot guys. Ugly girls hook up with ugly guys etc


Not everybody is in the major leagues making 10 million per year. Some play single A, Double A, or Triple A. Some play tee-ball

Thats reality. We all have limits
 
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