Umbra
Master Don Juan
Yeah, man. One thing at a time. Work off the weight and focus on getting in shape. Then try women.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Question about Looks
- Thread starter Bigdavis
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ok it's been 4 years since I started this thread but better late than never right? I've lost 100lbs by eating right and lifting weights.
I think I'm finally ready to start honing my skills and talking to chicks.
Here is a before and after what do you think? http://www.canecreekcurs.com/untitled6.jpg
I think I'm finally ready to start honing my skills and talking to chicks.
Here is a before and after what do you think? http://www.canecreekcurs.com/untitled6.jpg
Good job Big David! You can really see the big progress you made!
If you feel confidend, I would say start sarging! Maybe join a bootcamp to keep you on track or start a topic with your field expirience so you can get feedback on your actions..
I wouldnt wear polo with stripes horizontal due to the fact that they will make you look bigger...
Props and keep going!
If you feel confidend, I would say start sarging! Maybe join a bootcamp to keep you on track or start a topic with your field expirience so you can get feedback on your actions..
I wouldnt wear polo with stripes horizontal due to the fact that they will make you look bigger...
Props and keep going!
ChicagoStyle
Don Juan
I used to be over 300 pounds too bro, and now I'm around 165/170. If you actually have the balls to see this through to the end you will get much more than you anticipated.....
I have a thread in the health section with before/after photos
I have a thread in the health section with before/after photos
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
FoolsCause
Don Juan
How about dating plus-sized women until you've lost the extra pounds?
You guys are always saying looks don't matter
Reality says looks matter ALOT !
Hot girls hook up with Hot guys. Ugly girls hook up with ugly guys etc
Not everybody is in the major leagues making 10 million per year. Some play single A, Double A, or Triple A. Some play tee-ball
Thats reality. We all have limits
Reality says looks matter ALOT !
Hot girls hook up with Hot guys. Ugly girls hook up with ugly guys etc
Not everybody is in the major leagues making 10 million per year. Some play single A, Double A, or Triple A. Some play tee-ball
Thats reality. We all have limits