"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Q. about chinups and bars

wolf116

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With chinups/pullups. is it better to do them on a stright bar or one of them special ones with the angled ends. like this /-------\ but not really tho
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Straight, probably.
 

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With chin-ups, straight. ..I can't imagine it's possible to do a chin-up with your hands angled on one of those bars.. that would be very strange and probably cause alsorts of problems with your wrists.

Pull-ups - however you want!

The Muscly Jerk
 

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Everyone always interchanges the terms pullups with chin ups even if they know the difference. You should be doing all grips (pronated, supinated, hammer, wide, narrow) to effectively target everything.
 

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The bars that are angled 0utward like that are for wide grip, overhand chin-ups. Doing normal underhand chin-ups should be done on a normal flat bar.

Why the hell do the censor o u t w a r d ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skilla_Staz

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md3sign said:
Everyone always interchanges the terms pullups with chin ups even if they know the difference. You should be doing all grips (pronated, supinated, hammer, wide, narrow) to effectively target everything.
One set of each? lol

Pro narrow
Pro wide
Hammer (my fave)
Sup wide
Sup narrow?


Sound good? sets of 6 hah
 

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Haha no I mean in general. I do hammer chins on arm day and wide grip pullups on back day. If the bar was thicker in the center I'd do close supinated grip chins as well. And I still want to do those 1 arm pullups ....
 

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My back and bi's are on the same day...hmm.
 

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I've been doing sets with the overhand grip, but pulling up to the bar behind my neck. there pritty hard but my friend said there bad for you. Do you guys know
 

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there's a potential for rotator cuff damage anytime you bring something behind the neck (pull up, pull down, military or shoulder press). A quick google search will bring up some of the latest 'wisdom' on the subject.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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