"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Q. about chinups and bars

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With chinups/pullups. is it better to do them on a stright bar or one of them special ones with the angled ends. like this /-------\ but not really tho
 
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Straight, probably.
 

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With chin-ups, straight. ..I can't imagine it's possible to do a chin-up with your hands angled on one of those bars.. that would be very strange and probably cause alsorts of problems with your wrists.

Pull-ups - however you want!

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Everyone always interchanges the terms pullups with chin ups even if they know the difference. You should be doing all grips (pronated, supinated, hammer, wide, narrow) to effectively target everything.
 

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The bars that are angled 0utward like that are for wide grip, overhand chin-ups. Doing normal underhand chin-ups should be done on a normal flat bar.

Why the hell do the censor o u t w a r d ?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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md3sign said:
Everyone always interchanges the terms pullups with chin ups even if they know the difference. You should be doing all grips (pronated, supinated, hammer, wide, narrow) to effectively target everything.
One set of each? lol

Pro narrow
Pro wide
Hammer (my fave)
Sup wide
Sup narrow?


Sound good? sets of 6 hah
 

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Haha no I mean in general. I do hammer chins on arm day and wide grip pullups on back day. If the bar was thicker in the center I'd do close supinated grip chins as well. And I still want to do those 1 arm pullups ....
 

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My back and bi's are on the same day...hmm.
 

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I've been doing sets with the overhand grip, but pulling up to the bar behind my neck. there pritty hard but my friend said there bad for you. Do you guys know
 

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there's a potential for rotator cuff damage anytime you bring something behind the neck (pull up, pull down, military or shoulder press). A quick google search will bring up some of the latest 'wisdom' on the subject.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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