Yea, Wassup fellow DJs, i got a quick question, I been doin good but just lookin for advice on one thing that i feel i could be takin more advantage of than I have been, when ya doin the ****y/funny thing or whatever ppl call it, neg hits, whatever... How do you react when the girl hits you in the arm after one of your cracks on her?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Punch comeback~
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
shiningshadow
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"You only did that 'cause you like me."
biker_gixxer
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I look at my arm, then look her in the eyes and say 'are you enjoying yourself'?
Anything ****y will work...
Anything ****y will work...
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Originally posted by immrtlwun
b!tch slap her to show her that you don't take crap from people.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lordlaxative
Don Juan
Personally, I rub it and pretend it stung. Then I tell her she needs to be more careful with those "guns" she has and go for some kino of her bicep.
man, you guys really have your **** together!!!!Originally posted by Lordlaxative
Personally, I rub it and pretend it stung. Then I tell her she needs to be more careful with those "guns" she has and go for some kino of her bicep.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I do nothing, just smile knowing she wants me...
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"Oh harder" and give her a little smile.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't think anyone asks why, I was just asking for reactions different guys give, and there's a bunch of fun stuff in here to use, good lookin out DJs!Originally posted by Bloke
I do nothing, just smile knowing she wants me...
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
"Hey! Don't make me take my belt off!"
or if I know she's kinky
"Stop, I ain't into B&M!"
or if I know she's kinky
"Stop, I ain't into B&M!"