Yea, Wassup fellow DJs, i got a quick question, I been doin good but just lookin for advice on one thing that i feel i could be takin more advantage of than I have been, when ya doin the ****y/funny thing or whatever ppl call it, neg hits, whatever... How do you react when the girl hits you in the arm after one of your cracks on her?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Punch comeback~
- Thread starter Hanzo
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
shiningshadow
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"You only did that 'cause you like me."
biker_gixxer
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I look at my arm, then look her in the eyes and say 'are you enjoying yourself'?
Anything ****y will work...
Anything ****y will work...
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Originally posted by immrtlwun
b!tch slap her to show her that you don't take crap from people.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Lordlaxative
Don Juan
Personally, I rub it and pretend it stung. Then I tell her she needs to be more careful with those "guns" she has and go for some kino of her bicep.
man, you guys really have your **** together!!!!Originally posted by Lordlaxative
Personally, I rub it and pretend it stung. Then I tell her she needs to be more careful with those "guns" she has and go for some kino of her bicep.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I do nothing, just smile knowing she wants me...
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"Oh harder" and give her a little smile.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I don't think anyone asks why, I was just asking for reactions different guys give, and there's a bunch of fun stuff in here to use, good lookin out DJs!Originally posted by Bloke
I do nothing, just smile knowing she wants me...
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
"Hey! Don't make me take my belt off!"
or if I know she's kinky
"Stop, I ain't into B&M!"
or if I know she's kinky
"Stop, I ain't into B&M!"