Yea, Wassup fellow DJs, i got a quick question, I been doin good but just lookin for advice on one thing that i feel i could be takin more advantage of than I have been, when ya doin the ****y/funny thing or whatever ppl call it, neg hits, whatever... How do you react when the girl hits you in the arm after one of your cracks on her?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Punch comeback~
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
shiningshadow
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"You only did that 'cause you like me."
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I look at my arm, then look her in the eyes and say 'are you enjoying yourself'?
Anything ****y will work...
Anything ****y will work...
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Originally posted by immrtlwun
b!tch slap her to show her that you don't take crap from people.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lordlaxative
Don Juan
Personally, I rub it and pretend it stung. Then I tell her she needs to be more careful with those "guns" she has and go for some kino of her bicep.
man, you guys really have your **** together!!!!Originally posted by Lordlaxative
Personally, I rub it and pretend it stung. Then I tell her she needs to be more careful with those "guns" she has and go for some kino of her bicep.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I do nothing, just smile knowing she wants me...
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"Oh harder" and give her a little smile.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I don't think anyone asks why, I was just asking for reactions different guys give, and there's a bunch of fun stuff in here to use, good lookin out DJs!Originally posted by Bloke
I do nothing, just smile knowing she wants me...
I'm not a fan of bringing up WHY she did it at all. Both of you know your flirting, you just don't bring it up, that's what's so f*cking cool about it.
Think about it, if you mak her conscious of flirting, she' gonna feel awkward & stop doing it.
Just smile.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
"Hey! Don't make me take my belt off!"
or if I know she's kinky
"Stop, I ain't into B&M!"
or if I know she's kinky
"Stop, I ain't into B&M!"