The number of lays someone has frankly is irrelevant to me, I’m in my 50’s when I’m really juggling things I can easily do 2 quality new lays a month. Quality to me is defined as 30-50 but in athlete shape and a non neurotic personality. Sometimes you uncover gems. Over the years of in person approaches and bouts on Tinder I’ve managed to keep a harem of 5-10 decent quality gals with usually 2-3 I see more than once a week simultaneously.
As I’ve aged I like the mini relationship model, as opposed to the ONS. FNL is still important to me as proof of SMV. At most, if she’s super high quality I’ll expect a second date lay.
I’m nowhere near model quality, I’m in excellent athletic shape, I’m a polyglot, I’m traveled, excellent in the sack and passionate. I have presence and confidence. On a good day I’d say and others too that I’m solid 7.5-8. My backstory is interesting to most chicks regardless of age. And yes I’m a storyteller, which works very well for those who believe in Kino. Engage them emotionally, watch their faces and bodies and the attention your story garners then reach out for the first contact during a heightened moment of engagement. If you are a passionate man, use your hands to talk and are engaging, kino feels natural and expected to
When I started this phase of my life I was more indiscriminate about my lays, but as time has passed I won’t go for anything below 7.5, of course this is subjective as frak but I do t care what other bastards think, if they pass the big we test for me that’s what matters. Age teaches you to have the ZFG attitude.
so, in slay mode 24/year in cruise mode probably 10-12/year- but I have a number of regulars. Unfortunately this requires one to have his wits about himself, or you’ll get busted and potentially lose more than one plate.
in any case what are American so-called PUA’s charging per hour these days? Can anyone give me an average?