You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
..you seem to know alot of specifics about the subject
wow..that is a lot of reasons !!
yea !!! your absolutely right..alchoholism, drunk driving, liver disease, drunken fights and miscarriages due to drinking must be cons for something else..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well douchebag I'm not 26 playing video games. I'm only 16 and the nerds at my school use THOSE WORDS ALL THE TIME cuz they think they're SO COOL. If your drink and drive then your obviously don't have good friends that'll get you a cab or your just a stupid idiot and deserve to get in an accident. What's wrong with drunken fights? what you too skinny to throw a punch? I'm pretty sure the ladies feel really "secure" when they're with you. WTF miscarriages how does drinking alcohol cause accidental abortion? you mean unprotected sex / unwanted pregnancy right? your such an idiot pregnant women aren't suppose to drink in the first place. Obviously someone like YOU shouldn't drink and stick to playing WOW to prevent further loss of brain cells. :wave:Drum&Bass said:
I bet you do cuz you prob wack off to it cuz you cant get any real p*ssy. Is that your only comeback? that's pathetic I actually wrote a paragraph for you. Wait nevermind your from New Jersey... it all makes sense now. :moon:Drum&Bass said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
nice.seanchai said:
LOL, awesome.seanchai said: