She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
..you seem to know alot of specifics about the subject
wow..that is a lot of reasons !!
yea !!! your absolutely right..alchoholism, drunk driving, liver disease, drunken fights and miscarriages due to drinking must be cons for something else..
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well douchebag I'm not 26 playing video games. I'm only 16 and the nerds at my school use THOSE WORDS ALL THE TIME cuz they think they're SO COOL. If your drink and drive then your obviously don't have good friends that'll get you a cab or your just a stupid idiot and deserve to get in an accident. What's wrong with drunken fights? what you too skinny to throw a punch? I'm pretty sure the ladies feel really "secure" when they're with you. WTF miscarriages how does drinking alcohol cause accidental abortion? you mean unprotected sex / unwanted pregnancy right? your such an idiot pregnant women aren't suppose to drink in the first place. Obviously someone like YOU shouldn't drink and stick to playing WOW to prevent further loss of brain cells. :wave:Drum&Bass said:
I bet you do cuz you prob wack off to it cuz you cant get any real p*ssy. Is that your only comeback? that's pathetic I actually wrote a paragraph for you. Wait nevermind your from New Jersey... it all makes sense now. :moon:Drum&Bass said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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LOL, awesome.seanchai said: