Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
..you seem to know alot of specifics about the subject
wow..that is a lot of reasons !!
yea !!! your absolutely right..alchoholism, drunk driving, liver disease, drunken fights and miscarriages due to drinking must be cons for something else..
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well douchebag I'm not 26 playing video games. I'm only 16 and the nerds at my school use THOSE WORDS ALL THE TIME cuz they think they're SO COOL. If your drink and drive then your obviously don't have good friends that'll get you a cab or your just a stupid idiot and deserve to get in an accident. What's wrong with drunken fights? what you too skinny to throw a punch? I'm pretty sure the ladies feel really "secure" when they're with you. WTF miscarriages how does drinking alcohol cause accidental abortion? you mean unprotected sex / unwanted pregnancy right? your such an idiot pregnant women aren't suppose to drink in the first place. Obviously someone like YOU shouldn't drink and stick to playing WOW to prevent further loss of brain cells. :wave:Drum&Bass said:
I bet you do cuz you prob wack off to it cuz you cant get any real p*ssy. Is that your only comeback? that's pathetic I actually wrote a paragraph for you. Wait nevermind your from New Jersey... it all makes sense now. :moon:Drum&Bass said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
nice.seanchai said:
LOL, awesome.seanchai said: