You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
..you seem to know alot of specifics about the subject
wow..that is a lot of reasons !!
yea !!! your absolutely right..alchoholism, drunk driving, liver disease, drunken fights and miscarriages due to drinking must be cons for something else..
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well douchebag I'm not 26 playing video games. I'm only 16 and the nerds at my school use THOSE WORDS ALL THE TIME cuz they think they're SO COOL. If your drink and drive then your obviously don't have good friends that'll get you a cab or your just a stupid idiot and deserve to get in an accident. What's wrong with drunken fights? what you too skinny to throw a punch? I'm pretty sure the ladies feel really "secure" when they're with you. WTF miscarriages how does drinking alcohol cause accidental abortion? you mean unprotected sex / unwanted pregnancy right? your such an idiot pregnant women aren't suppose to drink in the first place. Obviously someone like YOU shouldn't drink and stick to playing WOW to prevent further loss of brain cells. :wave:Drum&Bass said:
I bet you do cuz you prob wack off to it cuz you cant get any real p*ssy. Is that your only comeback? that's pathetic I actually wrote a paragraph for you. Wait nevermind your from New Jersey... it all makes sense now. :moon:Drum&Bass said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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LOL, awesome.seanchai said: