She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
..you seem to know alot of specifics about the subject
wow..that is a lot of reasons !!
yea !!! your absolutely right..alchoholism, drunk driving, liver disease, drunken fights and miscarriages due to drinking must be cons for something else..
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well douchebag I'm not 26 playing video games. I'm only 16 and the nerds at my school use THOSE WORDS ALL THE TIME cuz they think they're SO COOL. If your drink and drive then your obviously don't have good friends that'll get you a cab or your just a stupid idiot and deserve to get in an accident. What's wrong with drunken fights? what you too skinny to throw a punch? I'm pretty sure the ladies feel really "secure" when they're with you. WTF miscarriages how does drinking alcohol cause accidental abortion? you mean unprotected sex / unwanted pregnancy right? your such an idiot pregnant women aren't suppose to drink in the first place. Obviously someone like YOU shouldn't drink and stick to playing WOW to prevent further loss of brain cells. :wave:Drum&Bass said:
I bet you do cuz you prob wack off to it cuz you cant get any real p*ssy. Is that your only comeback? that's pathetic I actually wrote a paragraph for you. Wait nevermind your from New Jersey... it all makes sense now. :moon:Drum&Bass said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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LOL, awesome.seanchai said: