Proper Screening

[Solomon]

The trick is to develop the knowledge base to the point where you get a good enough feel so you can loosen the template enough to make it feel organic.

Totally agree sounds like OP is looking for girls who are dtf, so some things I would vet for

-Is she flirty or receptive to flirting i.e. innuendo etc
-Is she sending you pics, preferably unsolicited i.e. I was talking to a girl I met on the apps she sent me a high-quality picture of her naked at her dask with glasses giving the whole sexy secretary look
-Is she bringing up dirty convo's first etc

If you experince enough you can sometimes gauge these things of the flow of conversations how a girl says things or what she is saying. The key is not being pushy, though. When I was younger I use to talk my way into ***** just to talk my way out of it. If a girl is really DTF they make it easy for you but you gotta be good at flirting via text and picking up nunance, I don't waste my time with facetime.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Totally agree sounds like OP is looking for girls who are dtf, so some things I would vet for

-Is she flirty or receptive to flirting i.e. innuendo etc
-Is she sending you pics, preferably unsolicited i.e. I was talking to a girl I met on the apps she sent me a high-quality picture of her naked at her dask with glasses giving the whole sexy secretary look
-Is she bringing up dirty convo's first etc

If you experince enough you can sometimes gauge these things of the flow of conversations how a girl says things or what she is saying. The key is not being pushy, though. When I was younger I use to talk my way into ***** just to talk my way out of it. If a girl is really DTF they make it easy for you but you gotta be good at flirting via text and picking up nunance, I don't waste my time with facetime.

we want to see the pic of the chick at her desk

I’m back on apps and literally just texted a bunch of chicks I’m chatting to with “Sooo ..horror movie and chill ..orrrr ?”
Out of boredom and self amusement to see what they will say.. It’s an interesting gear shift

I do experiments sometimes and open with things like
“ So.. what do you want to do to me ? “
The range of responses back can be very interesting

 

[Solomon]

we want to see the pic of the chick at her desk

I’m back on apps and literally just texted a bunch of chicks I’m chatting to with “Sooo ..horror movie and chill ..orrrr ?”
Out of boredom and self amusement to see what they will say.. It’s an interesting gear shift

I do experiments sometimes and open with things like
“ So.. what do you want to do to me ? “
The range of responses back can be very interesting

That's a good point about experimenting; you gotta try different stuff. You'd be surprised how boldness works on a woman espeically one that is attracted to you, it cuts the b.s. and sometimes you can get straight to the fun part

I use to be a collector of nudes of girls I smashed and didn't than i found it weird, so now if a situation ends with a girl I delete their pics...why remember someone who is most likely with someone else not thinking of you? I don't need trophies, i get it for some guys it is but im always trying to look forward and not back

 

[Cheeky_James]

That's a good point about experimenting; you gotta try different stuff. You'd be surprised how boldness works on a woman espeically one that is attracted to you, it cuts the b.s. and sometimes you can get straight to the fun part

I use to be a collector of nudes of girls I smashed and didn't than i found it weird, so now if a situation ends with a girl I delete their pics...why remember someone who is most likely with someone else not thinking of you? I don't need trophies, i get it for some guys it is but im always trying to look forward and not back

100%
Being bold can work wonders.

oh man.. I have just watched some BP” Chadfish” experiment videos on YT…it’s brutal stuff.
How bold the “Chad” can be. And how compliant the women are. There is no mucking around at all.
Example opener;
Him- “your place or mine?”
Her -“ wow so forward lol”

Then it’s just her giving the barest of token resistance (if any) and its done deal, and just logistics.

 

[p_1337]

100%
Being bold can work wonders.

oh man.. I have just watched some BP” Chadfish” experiment videos on YT…it’s brutal stuff.
How bold the “Chad” can be. And how compliant the women are. There is no mucking around at all.
Example opener;
Him- “your place or mine?”
Her -“ wow so forward lol”

Then it’s just her giving the barest of token resistance (if any) and its done deal, and just logistics.

Those 'chadfish' experiments are fun and interesting, but note: getting a woman interested in you on the app and flirting is part one (fairly easy if you have good pics + average to above average height listed) -- then actually what happens when (and if) you get her out is another hurdle. Even if she comes straight to yours it's not always a done deal.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Those 'chadfish' experiments are fun and interesting, but note: getting a woman interested in you on the app and flirting is part one (fairly easy if you have good pics + average to above average height listed) -- then actually what happens when (and if) you get her out is another hurdle. Even if she comes straight to yours it's not always a done deal.

Hmmm. That’s interesting.
I have had that happen but it’s a rare exception (that I didn’t end up having sex with the girl)

 

[Bigpapa]

Hmmm. That’s interesting.
I have had that happen but it’s a rare exception (that I didn’t end up having sex with the girl)

Used to be the case with me till a point, but in the last 1/2 years I have noticed that things can go smooth and still have a high chance of things not happening

mainly because of female ego that pushes them to try to control the dynamic and you end up into a frame war, despite being warm + firm on you boundaries

if she gets under your skin, you loose because you are reactive. If you deflect + firm boundaries + being warm her ego thinks she is loosing the frame war despite her actually liking you

the type of situation where you can not win

 

[Cheeky_James]

Used to be the case with me till a point, but in the last 1/2 years I have noticed that things can go smooth and still have a high chance of things not happening

mainly because of female ego that pushes them to try to control the dynamic and you end up into a frame war, despite being warm + firm on you boundaries

if she gets under your skin, you loose because you are reactive. If you deflect + firm boundaries + being warm her ego thinks she is loosing the frame war despite her actually liking you

the type of situation where you can not win

uhhhh.. frame wars.. not good.
Don’t wanna be getting into those at the crib.
Yeah , you can’t be reactive for sure. Have to ignore, or reframe with humour , or some bullsh1t excuse for whatever is my agenda.

But how do they try control the dynamic when they get there???

for me I’m either bouncing from a date (bar maybe or whatevs) where I’ve broken the touch barrier w the chick and we’ve likely had the makeout.,, so she’s getting horny already etc. and I am pretty hands on w her

else we are being suggestive and sexual by text oh the app. And then it’s Netflix and chill proposal, or drinks at mine, or whatever proposal. so the situation is pretty clear what’s gonna happen idk.

 

[Bigpapa]

uhhhh.. frame wars.. not good.
Don’t wanna be getting into those at the crib.
Yeah , you can’t be reactive for sure. Have to ignore, or reframe with humour , or some bullsh1t excuse for whatever is my agenda.

But how do they try control the dynamic when they get there???

for me I’m either bouncing from a date (bar maybe or whatevs) where I’ve broken the touch barrier w the chick and we’ve likely had the makeout.,, so she’s getting horny already etc. and I am pretty hands on w her

else we are being suggestive and sexual by text oh the app. And then it’s Netflix and chill proposal, or drinks at mine, or whatever proposal. so the situation is pretty clear what’s gonna happen idk.

Depends on where you are

but if she comes to your place, usually they will just be cold once they get to your place or be hyper vigilant to be sure that things do not get further than they can handle, and just call a taxi once they know they are about to brake

back in the days this was called LMR and the cause was that she did not want to look easy

this I do not know how it is called, because here it is not about appearances it is about control and doing anything possible to make the guy chase ( especially if she actually likes the guy )

if you are trying to set the logistics to meet, they would usually either say that they are very busy and put a date long in the future, or they will hit you with something like “ hey, can I confirm in that day ? “ or last minute they will try to change the logistics like “ let’s meet there l, or let’s change the day”