"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The trick is to develop the knowledge base to the point where you get a good enough feel so you can loosen the template enough to make it feel organic.
Totally agree sounds like OP is looking for girls who are dtf, so some things I would vet for

-Is she flirty or receptive to flirting i.e. innuendo etc
-Is she sending you pics, preferably unsolicited i.e. I was talking to a girl I met on the apps she sent me a high-quality picture of her naked at her dask with glasses giving the whole sexy secretary look
-Is she bringing up dirty convo's first etc

If you experince enough you can sometimes gauge these things of the flow of conversations how a girl says things or what she is saying. The key is not being pushy, though. When I was younger I use to talk my way into ***** just to talk my way out of it. If a girl is really DTF they make it easy for you but you gotta be good at flirting via text and picking up nunance, I don't waste my time with facetime.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Totally agree sounds like OP is looking for girls who are dtf, so some things I would vet for

-Is she flirty or receptive to flirting i.e. innuendo etc
-Is she sending you pics, preferably unsolicited i.e. I was talking to a girl I met on the apps she sent me a high-quality picture of her naked at her dask with glasses giving the whole sexy secretary look
-Is she bringing up dirty convo's first etc

If you experince enough you can sometimes gauge these things of the flow of conversations how a girl says things or what she is saying. The key is not being pushy, though. When I was younger I use to talk my way into ***** just to talk my way out of it. If a girl is really DTF they make it easy for you but you gotta be good at flirting via text and picking up nunance, I don't waste my time with facetime.
we want to see the pic of the chick at her desk :p

I’m back on apps and literally just texted a bunch of chicks I’m chatting to with “Sooo ..horror movie and chill ..orrrr ?”
Out of boredom and self amusement to see what they will say.. It’s an interesting gear shift :)

I do experiments sometimes and open with things like
“ So.. what do you want to do to me ? :p“
The range of responses back can be very interesting :rofl:
 

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we want to see the pic of the chick at her desk :p

I’m back on apps and literally just texted a bunch of chicks I’m chatting to with “Sooo ..horror movie and chill ..orrrr ?”
Out of boredom and self amusement to see what they will say.. It’s an interesting gear shift :)

I do experiments sometimes and open with things like
“ So.. what do you want to do to me ? :p“
The range of responses back can be very interesting :rofl:
That's a good point about experimenting; you gotta try different stuff. You'd be surprised how boldness works on a woman espeically one that is attracted to you, it cuts the b.s. and sometimes you can get straight to the fun part

I use to be a collector of nudes of girls I smashed and didn't than i found it weird, so now if a situation ends with a girl I delete their pics...why remember someone who is most likely with someone else not thinking of you? I don't need trophies, i get it for some guys it is but im always trying to look forward and not back
 
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