Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
How many of you guys are going to prom or juinior prom or w/e? I got asked by a hottie ive been gaming and am going with her. How about you guys? No need to vote if you not in HS or w/e.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
holy **** man. I feel for ya. I asked 2 out and got rejected by 2 and thought that was bad...XSilverStarboyX said:****. I asked out 8 girls and was turned down by everyone of them. I need to save money anyway
ask one of them soon. if you don't someone else will. it's gettin closeadpreston1988 said:Our prom is a little less than 2 months away and right now I have 2 different girls in mind to ask (who will probably say yes) if nothing else opens up for me.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1 girl for the prom will do...shydude said:There are 2500 girls in my school.. And i like about 2499 of em. And There are 1500 guys in school. So guys are outnumbered, So to me askin a girl to a prom is like asking a hooker to make out with me for 5000$. But the problem is, every chik i know thinks i am gonna ask her to the prom.. SO WDF, anyone knows if i can take like 200 hot babes to a prom with me? Or i can take only like 1....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Holy **** dude.... 30 girls in your grade??? Where do you live man?Exp said:GODDAMN! In our grade, we only have about 30 girls, 3 of them kind of nice looking.