Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
How many of you guys are going to prom or juinior prom or w/e? I got asked by a hottie ive been gaming and am going with her. How about you guys? No need to vote if you not in HS or w/e.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Prom
- Thread starter Brian20o2
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
yeah, I am going with your mom brian. lol
ReAwakened
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bah, broke up with the girl i asked 2 weeks ago. asked a friend to go as friends because everyone was taken but she wont go with me because her friend likes me and she 'cant do that to her'. She told me to ask her but not interested. welp i got about 3-4 weeks left. lets see what i can do!
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to HS forum.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
XSilverStarboyX
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****. I asked out 8 girls and was turned down by everyone of them. I need to save money anyway
adpreston1988
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Our prom is a little less than 2 months away and right now I have 2 different girls in mind to ask (who will probably say yes) if nothing else opens up for me.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
24 Are going with dates. Thats good. Im expecting some prom FRs. Mines on Saturday... She wants me bad
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
shydude
Master Don Juan
There are 2500 girls in my school.. And i like about 2499 of em. And There are 1500 guys in school. So guys are outnumbered, So to me askin a girl to a prom is like asking a hooker to make out with me for 5000$. But the problem is, every chik i know thinks i am gonna ask her to the prom.. SO WDF, anyone knows if i can take like 200 hot babes to a prom with me? Or i can take only like 1....
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
lol Awesome man. My proms tomorrow. Ill write a PR (Prom Report(lol))
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
girlfriend
comic_relief :rockon:
comic_relief :rockon:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.