Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
How many of you guys are going to prom or juinior prom or w/e? I got asked by a hottie ive been gaming and am going with her. How about you guys? No need to vote if you not in HS or w/e.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Prom
- Thread starter Brian20o2
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
yeah, I am going with your mom brian. lol
ReAwakened
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2004
- Messages
- 20
- Reaction score
- 0
bah, broke up with the girl i asked 2 weeks ago. asked a friend to go as friends because everyone was taken but she wont go with me because her friend likes me and she 'cant do that to her'. She told me to ask her but not interested. welp i got about 3-4 weeks left. lets see what i can do!
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to HS forum.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
XSilverStarboyX
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 14, 2004
- Messages
- 101
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 39
****. I asked out 8 girls and was turned down by everyone of them. I need to save money anyway
adpreston1988
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2006
- Messages
- 199
- Reaction score
- 0
Our prom is a little less than 2 months away and right now I have 2 different girls in mind to ask (who will probably say yes) if nothing else opens up for me.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
24 Are going with dates. Thats good. Im expecting some prom FRs. Mines on Saturday... She wants me bad
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
shydude
Master Don Juan
There are 2500 girls in my school.. And i like about 2499 of em. And There are 1500 guys in school. So guys are outnumbered, So to me askin a girl to a prom is like asking a hooker to make out with me for 5000$. But the problem is, every chik i know thinks i am gonna ask her to the prom.. SO WDF, anyone knows if i can take like 200 hot babes to a prom with me? Or i can take only like 1....
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
lol Awesome man. My proms tomorrow. Ill write a PR (Prom Report(lol))
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
girlfriend
comic_relief :rockon:
comic_relief :rockon:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.