"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Prom

Going to prom?

  • With a girl

    Votes: 18 69.2%
  • With friends

    Votes: 2 7.7%
  • Not going

    Votes: 6 23.1%

  • Total voters
    26

Brian20o2

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How many of you guys are going to prom or juinior prom or w/e? I got asked by a hottie ive been gaming and am going with her. How about you guys? No need to vote if you not in HS or w/e.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wavejams007

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yeah, I am going with your mom brian. lol
 

Climax

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Didnt go in MY matric year because I broke up with my gf a few weeks before my prom.

This year I am going with my new gf. Looking forward to it;)


Laterz...
 

ReAwakened

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bah, broke up with the girl i asked 2 weeks ago. asked a friend to go as friends because everyone was taken but she wont go with me because her friend likes me and she 'cant do that to her'. She told me to ask her but not interested. welp i got about 3-4 weeks left. lets see what i can do!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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XSilverStarboyX

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****. I asked out 8 girls and was turned down by everyone of them. I need to save money anyway
 

Potbelly

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XSilverStarboyX said:
****. I asked out 8 girls and was turned down by everyone of them. I need to save money anyway
holy **** man. I feel for ya. I asked 2 out and got rejected by 2 and thought that was bad...

just means I can spend the money on myself now woohooo:cheer:
 

adpreston1988

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Our prom is a little less than 2 months away and right now I have 2 different girls in mind to ask (who will probably say yes) if nothing else opens up for me.
 

applaya

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adpreston1988 said:
Our prom is a little less than 2 months away and right now I have 2 different girls in mind to ask (who will probably say yes) if nothing else opens up for me.
ask one of them soon. if you don't someone else will. it's gettin close

i'm a fr in college but goin to a hs one. can't wait
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shydude

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There are 2500 girls in my school.. And i like about 2499 of em. And There are 1500 guys in school. So guys are outnumbered, So to me askin a girl to a prom is like asking a hooker to make out with me for 5000$. But the problem is, every chik i know thinks i am gonna ask her to the prom.. SO WDF, anyone knows if i can take like 200 hot babes to a prom with me? Or i can take only like 1....
 

Climax

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shydude said:
There are 2500 girls in my school.. And i like about 2499 of em. And There are 1500 guys in school. So guys are outnumbered, So to me askin a girl to a prom is like asking a hooker to make out with me for 5000$. But the problem is, every chik i know thinks i am gonna ask her to the prom.. SO WDF, anyone knows if i can take like 200 hot babes to a prom with me? Or i can take only like 1....
1 girl for the prom will do...

2499 of em will have to do for the rest of the year.:rolleyes:
 

kev me723

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Mine is in like a month and i'm going with my gf, it should be a good time. All I can say is that we'd better find someplace private so I can get laid on prom nite!
 

comic_relief

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girlfriend

comic_relief :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NightPUA

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GODDAMN! In our grade, we only have about 30 girls, 3 of them kind of nice looking.
Holy **** dude.... 30 girls in your grade??? Where do you live man?

*Night
 
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