"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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prom is in less than 1 week - urgent

Potbelly

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my prom is in a week

first off, any tips you guys got for me besides have a wild ass time??

second, i'm going alone, but there are a few girls who are going alone. what are the advantages/disadvantages of having a date? because i will ask one of them this week if disad < ad.

thanks in advance DJs. it's gonna be great !!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Potbelly

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bump. c'mon this view/response ratio is terrible
 

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lol, i'm in the same exact situation. prom is this friday, and i'm goin single. I've asked one dateless chick so far and was blown off, she didnt kno me too well, bs. I'm plannin on asking one more chick, and then goin single if it doesnt come through.

Single (advantages)
no restrictions, you can dance with any chick with out devoting much time to only one.
(disadvantages)
well u dont have a date, no braggin rights
no guranteed dance partner, but i'm well of on the dancefloor so that doesnt worry me.

I'm goin to have as much fun goin single as i would with a date so its all good. have fun bro.
 

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thanks man.

sad thing happened a few minutes ago. i dont think im gonna go with a date.

i did not get rejected. no, that is not why. but i realized why i am in the situation i am in. i have been diong everything wrong. i thought with a little ****y funny and lame jokes i could get w/the girls. i was wrong. i have some value, and that's probably the only reason my friends laugh at my jokes. it's an eye opening experience for me ladies and gentlemen. i'm not even going to try for this girl. it's an act of desperation. come summer i'll do things right. i wasn't anything near a DJ. more like a player wannabe with no girls or experience whatsoever. the only good thing i did was probably do well in school and play baseball well (so i'im more in shape, and i notice this has gotten me more looks than c&f ever did btw). otherwise, i'm the same guy as i was 2 years ago :( but now i will change that.

madenq. best of luck to you man. i'll have some people to talk to, and i know about 10 girls going alone 7 of which are hb 7+ so i'll be fine w/the dancing. take care everyone. bye bye
 

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My advice. Do what you want.



And damn, this is a late prom. I thought our school had ours late, and that was a couple weeks ago. We're almost out of school, and we're the last ones.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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