"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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prom is in less than 1 week - urgent

Potbelly

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my prom is in a week

first off, any tips you guys got for me besides have a wild ass time??

second, i'm going alone, but there are a few girls who are going alone. what are the advantages/disadvantages of having a date? because i will ask one of them this week if disad < ad.

thanks in advance DJs. it's gonna be great !!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Potbelly

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bump. c'mon this view/response ratio is terrible
 

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lol, i'm in the same exact situation. prom is this friday, and i'm goin single. I've asked one dateless chick so far and was blown off, she didnt kno me too well, bs. I'm plannin on asking one more chick, and then goin single if it doesnt come through.

Single (advantages)
no restrictions, you can dance with any chick with out devoting much time to only one.
(disadvantages)
well u dont have a date, no braggin rights
no guranteed dance partner, but i'm well of on the dancefloor so that doesnt worry me.

I'm goin to have as much fun goin single as i would with a date so its all good. have fun bro.
 

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thanks man.

sad thing happened a few minutes ago. i dont think im gonna go with a date.

i did not get rejected. no, that is not why. but i realized why i am in the situation i am in. i have been diong everything wrong. i thought with a little ****y funny and lame jokes i could get w/the girls. i was wrong. i have some value, and that's probably the only reason my friends laugh at my jokes. it's an eye opening experience for me ladies and gentlemen. i'm not even going to try for this girl. it's an act of desperation. come summer i'll do things right. i wasn't anything near a DJ. more like a player wannabe with no girls or experience whatsoever. the only good thing i did was probably do well in school and play baseball well (so i'im more in shape, and i notice this has gotten me more looks than c&f ever did btw). otherwise, i'm the same guy as i was 2 years ago :( but now i will change that.

madenq. best of luck to you man. i'll have some people to talk to, and i know about 10 girls going alone 7 of which are hb 7+ so i'll be fine w/the dancing. take care everyone. bye bye
 

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My advice. Do what you want.



And damn, this is a late prom. I thought our school had ours late, and that was a couple weeks ago. We're almost out of school, and we're the last ones.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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