"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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prom is in less than 1 week - urgent

Potbelly

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my prom is in a week

first off, any tips you guys got for me besides have a wild ass time??

second, i'm going alone, but there are a few girls who are going alone. what are the advantages/disadvantages of having a date? because i will ask one of them this week if disad < ad.

thanks in advance DJs. it's gonna be great !!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bump. c'mon this view/response ratio is terrible
 

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lol, i'm in the same exact situation. prom is this friday, and i'm goin single. I've asked one dateless chick so far and was blown off, she didnt kno me too well, bs. I'm plannin on asking one more chick, and then goin single if it doesnt come through.

Single (advantages)
no restrictions, you can dance with any chick with out devoting much time to only one.
(disadvantages)
well u dont have a date, no braggin rights
no guranteed dance partner, but i'm well of on the dancefloor so that doesnt worry me.

I'm goin to have as much fun goin single as i would with a date so its all good. have fun bro.
 

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thanks man.

sad thing happened a few minutes ago. i dont think im gonna go with a date.

i did not get rejected. no, that is not why. but i realized why i am in the situation i am in. i have been diong everything wrong. i thought with a little ****y funny and lame jokes i could get w/the girls. i was wrong. i have some value, and that's probably the only reason my friends laugh at my jokes. it's an eye opening experience for me ladies and gentlemen. i'm not even going to try for this girl. it's an act of desperation. come summer i'll do things right. i wasn't anything near a DJ. more like a player wannabe with no girls or experience whatsoever. the only good thing i did was probably do well in school and play baseball well (so i'im more in shape, and i notice this has gotten me more looks than c&f ever did btw). otherwise, i'm the same guy as i was 2 years ago :( but now i will change that.

madenq. best of luck to you man. i'll have some people to talk to, and i know about 10 girls going alone 7 of which are hb 7+ so i'll be fine w/the dancing. take care everyone. bye bye
 

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My advice. Do what you want.



And damn, this is a late prom. I thought our school had ours late, and that was a couple weeks ago. We're almost out of school, and we're the last ones.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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