"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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prom is in less than 1 week - urgent

Potbelly

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my prom is in a week

first off, any tips you guys got for me besides have a wild ass time??

second, i'm going alone, but there are a few girls who are going alone. what are the advantages/disadvantages of having a date? because i will ask one of them this week if disad < ad.

thanks in advance DJs. it's gonna be great !!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Potbelly

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bump. c'mon this view/response ratio is terrible
 

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lol, i'm in the same exact situation. prom is this friday, and i'm goin single. I've asked one dateless chick so far and was blown off, she didnt kno me too well, bs. I'm plannin on asking one more chick, and then goin single if it doesnt come through.

Single (advantages)
no restrictions, you can dance with any chick with out devoting much time to only one.
(disadvantages)
well u dont have a date, no braggin rights
no guranteed dance partner, but i'm well of on the dancefloor so that doesnt worry me.

I'm goin to have as much fun goin single as i would with a date so its all good. have fun bro.
 

Potbelly

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thanks man.

sad thing happened a few minutes ago. i dont think im gonna go with a date.

i did not get rejected. no, that is not why. but i realized why i am in the situation i am in. i have been diong everything wrong. i thought with a little ****y funny and lame jokes i could get w/the girls. i was wrong. i have some value, and that's probably the only reason my friends laugh at my jokes. it's an eye opening experience for me ladies and gentlemen. i'm not even going to try for this girl. it's an act of desperation. come summer i'll do things right. i wasn't anything near a DJ. more like a player wannabe with no girls or experience whatsoever. the only good thing i did was probably do well in school and play baseball well (so i'im more in shape, and i notice this has gotten me more looks than c&f ever did btw). otherwise, i'm the same guy as i was 2 years ago :( but now i will change that.

madenq. best of luck to you man. i'll have some people to talk to, and i know about 10 girls going alone 7 of which are hb 7+ so i'll be fine w/the dancing. take care everyone. bye bye
 

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My advice. Do what you want.



And damn, this is a late prom. I thought our school had ours late, and that was a couple weeks ago. We're almost out of school, and we're the last ones.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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