marmel75
Master Don Juan
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Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"How tall were you for these 188lb lifts?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"How tall were you for these 188lb lifts?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Perhaps your hormonal profile is declining. But you don't need HRT, right? That's for the unsavoryBeen taking fish oil most of my adult life, and yea it helps, but there's no way my joints can handle the weights of my youth any more...
Haha I know my hormones are changing, but it doesn't really bother me.. I have to age whether I like it or notPerhaps your hormonal profile is declining. But you don't need HRT, right? That's for the unsavory![]()
Fvck that brother, I'm not withering away into an old, frail man. IF age wants to take me out, it better come big and come swinging.Haha I know my hormones are changing, but it doesn't really bother me.. I have to age whether I like it or not
5'8" and 190 is like being 6'2" and 220. Decent amount of muscle if it's all muscle.Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It was...I looked like a linebacker and used to wear Nike drifits because my abs showed through them like slabs of ribs...5'8" and 190 is like being 6'2" and 220. Decent amount of muscle if it's all muscle.
Women be grabbing on that and enjoy the viewIt was...I looked like a linebacker and used to wear Nike drifits because my abs showed through them like slabs of ribs...
Lots of lower body weight my legs/glutes were bodybuilder jacked...
This kid is 16 years old and weighs 160 pounds and he's curling 50 pound dumbells. He's skinny but I'd say he is very strong for his age.Yes, 50 pound with one arm (100 pounds as you hold two) is heavy curling. That's the heaviest dumbbell in my set. Are you saying you curl with 80s? Those are for shrugs.
I'd like to arm wrestle you. I was the strongest arm wrestler in my high school, and am stronger now, and you're pretending I'm below average strength. You're talking out your as-s. Show us a video of you curling 50lb 10 times with one arm.
Sorry if my physique will conceivably only compare to the greatest NFL player of all time and not the most jacked NFL player of all time.
Oh, and sorry that my HB9 20 year old only stayed with me 9 months.
It might be that you guys have impossibly high standards. I wonder if you are living those standards or simply holding me to them.
You're talking about that "I won 5 Super Bowls" guy? The "I won Super Bowls at age 37 and age 39" guy? Let me guess: you wanted Seattle and Atlanta to win.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
im a 33 year old man I don't qualify myself to others. Did when I was younger but I have worked on my self esteem since then.Good for him. He is as strong as me. Are you? Show us photos of YOU doing it.
Today I asked my trainer: "Do people curl 50 pound dumbells with one arm?" He said "No, I discourage that because it is too much strain on the joints".
When I graduated high school I was 6'5" 170 with a 34 inch waist.
Today, 30 years later, I am 6'5" 215 with a 33 inch waist.
6'3, 215. I'm hovering around ~12% right now
That's a ridiculous statement. It's all relative.Today I asked my trainer: "Do people curl 50 pound dumbells with one arm?" He said "No, I discourage that because it is too much strain on the joints".
@marmel75 talked about strength levels, and I said curling 50 was a measure of strength, and I thought you said it wasn't.I don't care whether you think I can curl 50's
6'2", 240, its about the pics, a little leaner today, so whatever that number is. Should be under 10%. Goal is striated oblique, intercostals and glutes visible. Hopefully by my birthday 10/1...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My waist is 32". Wanna get it to 30" and drop about 10 lb of fat.@mrgoodstuff @SteR
You guys are big boys. I'm 6'1 190, but the extreme muscle development (due to heavy compound lifts) and 29 inch waist gives the illusion that I am much heavier.
Curling is nobody's measure of strength besides yours perhaps.@marmel75 talked about strength levels, and I said curling 50 was a measure of strength, and I thought you said it wasn't.
Strength was never my problem, despite the fact I was never muscular.
My muscle and fat levels always seemed to increase and decrease together, probably because carrying around extra fat makes you bigger. You might drop fat quickly and cut up but then the muscle level goes down, at least before I worked out.
I billed out 3600 hours this year, and had two happy bosses. That's 72 hours per week (6 12 hours days), with zero sick days. All while going to the gym.Go do some deadlifts, weighted pull ups, squats, bench presses, barbell rows or any other compound lift if you want to measure strength.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.