marmel75
Master Don Juan
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Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"How tall were you for these 188lb lifts?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"How tall were you for these 188lb lifts?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Perhaps your hormonal profile is declining. But you don't need HRT, right? That's for the unsavoryBeen taking fish oil most of my adult life, and yea it helps, but there's no way my joints can handle the weights of my youth any more...
Haha I know my hormones are changing, but it doesn't really bother me.. I have to age whether I like it or notPerhaps your hormonal profile is declining. But you don't need HRT, right? That's for the unsavory![]()
Fvck that brother, I'm not withering away into an old, frail man. IF age wants to take me out, it better come big and come swinging.Haha I know my hormones are changing, but it doesn't really bother me.. I have to age whether I like it or not
5'8" and 190 is like being 6'2" and 220. Decent amount of muscle if it's all muscle.Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It was...I looked like a linebacker and used to wear Nike drifits because my abs showed through them like slabs of ribs...5'8" and 190 is like being 6'2" and 220. Decent amount of muscle if it's all muscle.
Women be grabbing on that and enjoy the viewIt was...I looked like a linebacker and used to wear Nike drifits because my abs showed through them like slabs of ribs...
Lots of lower body weight my legs/glutes were bodybuilder jacked...
This kid is 16 years old and weighs 160 pounds and he's curling 50 pound dumbells. He's skinny but I'd say he is very strong for his age.Yes, 50 pound with one arm (100 pounds as you hold two) is heavy curling. That's the heaviest dumbbell in my set. Are you saying you curl with 80s? Those are for shrugs.
I'd like to arm wrestle you. I was the strongest arm wrestler in my high school, and am stronger now, and you're pretending I'm below average strength. You're talking out your as-s. Show us a video of you curling 50lb 10 times with one arm.
Sorry if my physique will conceivably only compare to the greatest NFL player of all time and not the most jacked NFL player of all time.
Oh, and sorry that my HB9 20 year old only stayed with me 9 months.
It might be that you guys have impossibly high standards. I wonder if you are living those standards or simply holding me to them.
You're talking about that "I won 5 Super Bowls" guy? The "I won Super Bowls at age 37 and age 39" guy? Let me guess: you wanted Seattle and Atlanta to win.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
im a 33 year old man I don't qualify myself to others. Did when I was younger but I have worked on my self esteem since then.Good for him. He is as strong as me. Are you? Show us photos of YOU doing it.
Today I asked my trainer: "Do people curl 50 pound dumbells with one arm?" He said "No, I discourage that because it is too much strain on the joints".
When I graduated high school I was 6'5" 170 with a 34 inch waist.
Today, 30 years later, I am 6'5" 215 with a 33 inch waist.
6'3, 215. I'm hovering around ~12% right now
That's a ridiculous statement. It's all relative.Today I asked my trainer: "Do people curl 50 pound dumbells with one arm?" He said "No, I discourage that because it is too much strain on the joints".
@marmel75 talked about strength levels, and I said curling 50 was a measure of strength, and I thought you said it wasn't.I don't care whether you think I can curl 50's
6'2", 240, its about the pics, a little leaner today, so whatever that number is. Should be under 10%. Goal is striated oblique, intercostals and glutes visible. Hopefully by my birthday 10/1...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My waist is 32". Wanna get it to 30" and drop about 10 lb of fat.@mrgoodstuff @SteR
You guys are big boys. I'm 6'1 190, but the extreme muscle development (due to heavy compound lifts) and 29 inch waist gives the illusion that I am much heavier.
Curling is nobody's measure of strength besides yours perhaps.@marmel75 talked about strength levels, and I said curling 50 was a measure of strength, and I thought you said it wasn't.
Strength was never my problem, despite the fact I was never muscular.
My muscle and fat levels always seemed to increase and decrease together, probably because carrying around extra fat makes you bigger. You might drop fat quickly and cut up but then the muscle level goes down, at least before I worked out.
I billed out 3600 hours this year, and had two happy bosses. That's 72 hours per week (6 12 hours days), with zero sick days. All while going to the gym.Go do some deadlifts, weighted pull ups, squats, bench presses, barbell rows or any other compound lift if you want to measure strength.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.