marmel75
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 4, 2012
- Messages
- 7,175
- Reaction score
- 5,571
Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"How tall were you for these 188lb lifts?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"How tall were you for these 188lb lifts?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Perhaps your hormonal profile is declining. But you don't need HRT, right? That's for the unsavoryBeen taking fish oil most of my adult life, and yea it helps, but there's no way my joints can handle the weights of my youth any more...
Haha I know my hormones are changing, but it doesn't really bother me.. I have to age whether I like it or notPerhaps your hormonal profile is declining. But you don't need HRT, right? That's for the unsavory![]()
Fvck that brother, I'm not withering away into an old, frail man. IF age wants to take me out, it better come big and come swinging.Haha I know my hormones are changing, but it doesn't really bother me.. I have to age whether I like it or not
5'8" and 190 is like being 6'2" and 220. Decent amount of muscle if it's all muscle.Lol, the same height I am now...5'8"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It was...I looked like a linebacker and used to wear Nike drifits because my abs showed through them like slabs of ribs...5'8" and 190 is like being 6'2" and 220. Decent amount of muscle if it's all muscle.
Women be grabbing on that and enjoy the viewIt was...I looked like a linebacker and used to wear Nike drifits because my abs showed through them like slabs of ribs...
Lots of lower body weight my legs/glutes were bodybuilder jacked...
This kid is 16 years old and weighs 160 pounds and he's curling 50 pound dumbells. He's skinny but I'd say he is very strong for his age.Yes, 50 pound with one arm (100 pounds as you hold two) is heavy curling. That's the heaviest dumbbell in my set. Are you saying you curl with 80s? Those are for shrugs.
I'd like to arm wrestle you. I was the strongest arm wrestler in my high school, and am stronger now, and you're pretending I'm below average strength. You're talking out your as-s. Show us a video of you curling 50lb 10 times with one arm.
Sorry if my physique will conceivably only compare to the greatest NFL player of all time and not the most jacked NFL player of all time.
Oh, and sorry that my HB9 20 year old only stayed with me 9 months.
It might be that you guys have impossibly high standards. I wonder if you are living those standards or simply holding me to them.
You're talking about that "I won 5 Super Bowls" guy? The "I won Super Bowls at age 37 and age 39" guy? Let me guess: you wanted Seattle and Atlanta to win.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
im a 33 year old man I don't qualify myself to others. Did when I was younger but I have worked on my self esteem since then.Good for him. He is as strong as me. Are you? Show us photos of YOU doing it.
Today I asked my trainer: "Do people curl 50 pound dumbells with one arm?" He said "No, I discourage that because it is too much strain on the joints".
When I graduated high school I was 6'5" 170 with a 34 inch waist.
Today, 30 years later, I am 6'5" 215 with a 33 inch waist.
6'3, 215. I'm hovering around ~12% right now
That's a ridiculous statement. It's all relative.Today I asked my trainer: "Do people curl 50 pound dumbells with one arm?" He said "No, I discourage that because it is too much strain on the joints".
@marmel75 talked about strength levels, and I said curling 50 was a measure of strength, and I thought you said it wasn't.I don't care whether you think I can curl 50's
6'2", 240, its about the pics, a little leaner today, so whatever that number is. Should be under 10%. Goal is striated oblique, intercostals and glutes visible. Hopefully by my birthday 10/1...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My waist is 32". Wanna get it to 30" and drop about 10 lb of fat.@mrgoodstuff @SteR
You guys are big boys. I'm 6'1 190, but the extreme muscle development (due to heavy compound lifts) and 29 inch waist gives the illusion that I am much heavier.
Curling is nobody's measure of strength besides yours perhaps.@marmel75 talked about strength levels, and I said curling 50 was a measure of strength, and I thought you said it wasn't.
Strength was never my problem, despite the fact I was never muscular.
My muscle and fat levels always seemed to increase and decrease together, probably because carrying around extra fat makes you bigger. You might drop fat quickly and cut up but then the muscle level goes down, at least before I worked out.
I billed out 3600 hours this year, and had two happy bosses. That's 72 hours per week (6 12 hours days), with zero sick days. All while going to the gym.Go do some deadlifts, weighted pull ups, squats, bench presses, barbell rows or any other compound lift if you want to measure strength.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.