"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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1. Be a man and take responsibility for your actions, step up to the plate.
2. 'mom, dad, she's pregnant' Yes, it really is that simple.
Smooth as Anything
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We need more advice like this
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Evil? Hell no. I personally think we should move the abortion age limit from 3 months(?) to 80 years.Originally posted by Ratman
not to be a **** but if i got some1 pregant i would CONFICE them to get a abortion it sounds evil but at a young age a kid can **** the rest of ur life up
seriously.. how in the world do you expect to take care of another human being..when you are 17 and cant take care of yourself?
your girl is 3k miles away.. i dont know how faithful she is but it might not be yours.. tested.tested.. abortion..
now you are in a tight spot.. you tell her you want abortion..and she has a kid, she will tell the kid you didnt want him when he grows up... simple comeback to that would be "i was young and dumb, but im glad you, my son, turned out to be good"..
otherwise, straight up..tell it to her face- im not ready for a kid, youa re not ready. im gonna fvcking kick you in the stomach..or leave the counrty..whichever is necessary to have you abort.
yes i am mean but abortion has to be a choice TWO people make...not some dumb religious b1tches.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tell her you can't afford a baby, and theres no way you can finance one. If she wants to terminate it, its her own damn choice. But if she wants to keep it, consider adoption, or raise it on her own.
Don't be so immature people.
Centy
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it's her own choice.. she can raise it on her own?? man, have you ever heard of CHILD SUPPORT?! i know guys my age who are so in debt becuase of that sh1t they cant offord anything!
howcome it takes two people to make a child.. one to deicde if she wants to keep it or not.. even if the guy disagrees! Howcome the guy still has to pay when he said "i dont want it" from the moment he heard the news!?
she knows what's coming..how the fvck does it make sense?!
Frankly I'm against abortion, he shouldn't have been so stupid. Take the f*cking responsibilty for your actions. The guys you know are also stupid, they had it comming.
Whatever happened with adoption, you know more people want kids than have them. Why the f*ck are you all so ready to have the thing killed, jesus.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yellowspeed
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If you can't take care of the baby yourself, there are other options out there like adoption. Plenty of couples out there who would love to be parents but are unable too.
Some people here really make me sick for having abortion as their 1st and only option.
This post isn't directed to the original poster specifically but everyone in general.
yellowspeed
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TyTe`EyEs
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.