"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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1. Be a man and take responsibility for your actions, step up to the plate.
2. 'mom, dad, she's pregnant' Yes, it really is that simple.
Smooth as Anything
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We need more advice like this
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Smooth as Anything
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Evil? Hell no. I personally think we should move the abortion age limit from 3 months(?) to 80 years.Originally posted by Ratman
not to be a **** but if i got some1 pregant i would CONFICE them to get a abortion it sounds evil but at a young age a kid can **** the rest of ur life up
seriously.. how in the world do you expect to take care of another human being..when you are 17 and cant take care of yourself?
your girl is 3k miles away.. i dont know how faithful she is but it might not be yours.. tested.tested.. abortion..
now you are in a tight spot.. you tell her you want abortion..and she has a kid, she will tell the kid you didnt want him when he grows up... simple comeback to that would be "i was young and dumb, but im glad you, my son, turned out to be good"..
otherwise, straight up..tell it to her face- im not ready for a kid, youa re not ready. im gonna fvcking kick you in the stomach..or leave the counrty..whichever is necessary to have you abort.
yes i am mean but abortion has to be a choice TWO people make...not some dumb religious b1tches.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tell her you can't afford a baby, and theres no way you can finance one. If she wants to terminate it, its her own damn choice. But if she wants to keep it, consider adoption, or raise it on her own.
Don't be so immature people.
Centy
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it's her own choice.. she can raise it on her own?? man, have you ever heard of CHILD SUPPORT?! i know guys my age who are so in debt becuase of that sh1t they cant offord anything!
howcome it takes two people to make a child.. one to deicde if she wants to keep it or not.. even if the guy disagrees! Howcome the guy still has to pay when he said "i dont want it" from the moment he heard the news!?
she knows what's coming..how the fvck does it make sense?!
Frankly I'm against abortion, he shouldn't have been so stupid. Take the f*cking responsibilty for your actions. The guys you know are also stupid, they had it comming.
Whatever happened with adoption, you know more people want kids than have them. Why the f*ck are you all so ready to have the thing killed, jesus.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yellowspeed
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If you can't take care of the baby yourself, there are other options out there like adoption. Plenty of couples out there who would love to be parents but are unable too.
Some people here really make me sick for having abortion as their 1st and only option.
This post isn't directed to the original poster specifically but everyone in general.
yellowspeed
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TyTe`EyEs
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.