"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pregnant...

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Well my ex gf has every syptom of being pregnant and shes 3000 miles away. If she is what do I do. I want to be with her but i dunno ... HOW DO YOU TELL YUOR PARENTS YOUR GF IS PREGNANT.. :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont jump the gun just yet tho man. But we all feel for you.

tell her to get tested, and then you'll know whats up.
 
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Man, your life is screwed up! Weren't you asking how to get a new girl just a few days ago?

Isn't she moving in with you anyway?
 
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Originally posted by wh01987
Well If she is what do I do. HOW DO YOU TELL YUOR PARENTS YOUR GF IS PREGNANT.
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1. Be a man and take responsibility for your actions, step up to the plate.

2. 'mom, dad, she's pregnant' Yes, it really is that simple.
 
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Re: Re: pregnant...

Originally posted by biker_gixxer
2. 'mom, dad, she's pregnant' Yes, it really is that simple.
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We need more advice like this :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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not to be a **** but if i got some1 pregant i would CONFICE them to get a abortion it sounds evil but at a young age a kid can **** the rest of ur life up :(
 
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Originally posted by Ratman
not to be a **** but if i got some1 pregant i would CONFICE them to get a abortion it sounds evil but at a young age a kid can **** the rest of ur life up :(
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Evil? Hell no. I personally think we should move the abortion age limit from 3 months(?) to 80 years.
 
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if you dont get an abortion, consider you life RUINED
 
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nonono..let's get this sh1t straight- u have a kid before you finish college..you are fvcked. if it is high school.. that is a nightmare...

seriously.. how in the world do you expect to take care of another human being..when you are 17 and cant take care of yourself?


your girl is 3k miles away.. i dont know how faithful she is but it might not be yours.. tested.tested.. abortion..

now you are in a tight spot.. you tell her you want abortion..and she has a kid, she will tell the kid you didnt want him when he grows up... simple comeback to that would be "i was young and dumb, but im glad you, my son, turned out to be good"..

otherwise, straight up..tell it to her face- im not ready for a kid, youa re not ready. im gonna fvcking kick you in the stomach..or leave the counrty..whichever is necessary to have you abort.

yes i am mean but abortion has to be a choice TWO people make...not some dumb religious b1tches.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let her make her own F*cking choice. Jesus christ, you guys have no heart.

Tell her you can't afford a baby, and theres no way you can finance one. If she wants to terminate it, its her own damn choice. But if she wants to keep it, consider adoption, or raise it on her own.

Don't be so immature people.
 
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vincent..you are so naive..

it's her own choice.. she can raise it on her own?? man, have you ever heard of CHILD SUPPORT?! i know guys my age who are so in debt becuase of that sh1t they cant offord anything!

howcome it takes two people to make a child.. one to deicde if she wants to keep it or not.. even if the guy disagrees! Howcome the guy still has to pay when he said "i dont want it" from the moment he heard the news!?

she knows what's coming..how the fvck does it make sense?!
 
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Originally posted by Oxide
vincent..you are so naive..

it's her own choice.. she can raise it on her own?? man, have you ever heard of CHILD SUPPORT?! i know guys my age who are so in debt becuase of that sh1t they cant offord anything!

howcome it takes two people to make a child.. one to deicde if she wants to keep it or not.. even if the guy disagrees! Howcome the guy still has to pay when he said "i dont want it" from the moment he heard the news!?

she knows what's coming..how the fvck does it make sense?!
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Frankly I'm against abortion, he shouldn't have been so stupid. Take the f*cking responsibilty for your actions. The guys you know are also stupid, they had it comming.

Whatever happened with adoption, you know more people want kids than have them. Why the f*ck are you all so ready to have the thing killed, jesus.
 
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because the child kills 2 people if they arent ready.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting an abortion because a baby doesn't fit into your life plans is stupid. You should have thought of the consequences before you blew your wad. Now you have to step up, be a man and don't take the easy way out by making the baby pay for YOUR mistake.

If you can't take care of the baby yourself, there are other options out there like adoption. Plenty of couples out there who would love to be parents but are unable too.

Some people here really make me sick for having abortion as their 1st and only option.:mad:

This post isn't directed to the original poster specifically but everyone in general.
 
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not pregnant.. ****ing christ thank god ..
 
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Take this as a warning and be alot more careful.
 
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Is that your final answer...? :p
 
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Didn't you say that her parents were dying or something? And wasn't she talking sh!t about you to some other dudes? Damn, things just keep getting worse for you huh?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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