Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Preferred contact info to get from girls?

Preferred contact info to get from girls?


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Sam Harlo

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Getting chicks numbers isn't working as well for me as getting their snapchats.

Why?

I think it's because snapchat doesn't preview the message, so girls are forced to open it up and respond then and there before it gets erased...

As opposed to seeing FB message/text message pop up on phone screen, giving them hours to respond/forget about it.

Also, snapchat seems a little more casual/not as intimidating.

This applies to girls you've cold approached/met out btw. Not girls from social circle.

What contact information do you guys prefer to grab? Phone number? Snapchat? Facebook?

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Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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Phone number, but I'm an old guy. I don't do snap chat, instagram or what not. I do facebook but not if I just started dating a girl. I don't give out my facebook lightly. If they don't want to do it my way I move on. There are plenty of women that will.
 

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Remember all messaging should be minimalized and should lead to arranging dates. Save your wit and charm for in-person.

Number: If you ask her for her number, and she is interested, she will give it to you.

Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)

Facebook & Instagram: You're setting yourself up to be a orbiter and water her ego flower. Don't follow any broads on these.
 

SmooveMooves

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Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)
Took the words out of my mouth.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sam Harlo

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Remember all messaging should be minimalized and should lead to arranging dates. Save your wit and charm for in-person.

Number: If you ask her for her number, and she is interested, she will give it to you.

Snapchat: Viable alternative. A lot of younger girls are more comfortable and more open to giving out their snapchat username I've been noticing. This platform is more discreet too. It also can benefit you if you live an exciting lifestyle and will give you more social value. Use the Chat feauture. However, don't become a orbiter... Make sure you get to the point the same way if you were texting. (Arranging a date)

Facebook & Instagram: You're setting yourself up to be a orbiter and water her ego flower. Don't follow any broads on these.
Very solid points. Most girls I meet are 18-23, have short attention spans and are usually drunk. Probably snapchat is best!
 

marmel75

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In short, it's irrelevant.
 

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Subtitled: OP asked for her phone number and got her Facebook and wonders whether it might be a good thing?
 

old_skoolr

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Phone Number, doesnt matter what generation you are, the implied meaning is the same.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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